In fact, (and if Juli 'is Leora), I would like to see more forceful response from you, in cases like this Solemn or Canli and others that will appear, like:
I am married to Paul and would never be unfaithful; before this happens I would have asked for a divorce, or
I am a married woman, and I deserve more respect from you, or simply,
it is my private life and not concerned to you, or ... or ...
Because it truly does not deny anything that has been stated, and can mislead the least informed...(It's my opinion)