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Still feel sorry for poor Sayn. She is getting everything she wants, and he is moved to a crummy apartment. Keeping him close enough so that if other options do not work out, she can still have someone that treats her like a Princess. Additionally, he is close when she needs booze, cigarettes, or money. He is so madly in love with her he cannot see how this game is playing out. I suppose it is even more vicious to do this to him with only a couple of weeks to Christmas. I have had a lot of old memories return with the way she has treated him. Had a similar thing happen to me a few years back and I am still not completely over it. I was in love with a girl that decided the grass was greener on the other side, and and she basically did the same as Elli. I hope Sayn's heart is more resilient than mine, as I still pine for that girl years after the fact. I know exactly how he must feel. However, i was fortunately not strung along, as he appears to be. This is definitely taking advantage of his love. I remember a saying one GF quoted me. If you have a caged bird you let it go, if it comes back to you it is truly yours, if it does not come back, it never was yours. Not sure which one of them is the caged bird in this situation. I guess it is Elli. I realize that this is essentially a porn site, but these are still real people, with real feelings. I for one, want to show some empathy and compassion.

Yesterday, saw a replay of last weekend where Elli was able to lie and exploit poor Sayn to the point of no return. She is an amazing actress and Sayn is the dumbfounded patron watching the play. This is a train wreck beyond comparison. You have the lovesick boyfriend, the sneaky interloper, and the sadistic puppet master. If I hadn’t seen this play out, I would not have believed it possible. Wow, it is amazing how someone so young can be this manipulative, vicious, and cold hearted. She has a sinister plan and it would appear to be all falling in place. She wants the both of them, but for vastly different reasons. Sayn gives her security and a guaranteed extra income, while the Leach gives her the excitement of dangerous sex in places like washrooms, dressing rooms, closets, etc… not to mention a taboo relationship. I have seen Elli called a Princess on many occasions, which up until a couple of weeks ago was generally accepted. I always had her as an innocent, if not childlike soul. My opinion has dramatically changed. She is the essence of evil. It is alright to make a mistake and repent, but this is a well orchestrated plan to have both boys at her beck and calling. I actually see this as having the potential of getting out of hand entirely. Both guys may start to see the other as their arch rival who is essentially getting in the way of their true happiness. This could lead to disastrous consequences if one of them does something stupid like attacking the other. Unfortunately, this is the dangerous game she is playing. She is no longer the Princess, but should be referred to from now on in as the Black Widow. She is sowing a web of deceit that is ruthless/vicious to the core. Elli may someday look back and regret the entire sordid affair, although she has shown up til now a complete lack of empathy for anyone’s feelings. She will no doubt have to live with the consequences of her actions. So sad, yet totally avoidable.

Boy, it was hard to watch Elli & Sayn this evening. He takes her out to dinner, buys her flowers, helps her make Christmas decorations, tries to dance with her, all for naught. He tried to hug her, to cuddle with her, to kiss her, over and over again, only to be continuously rejected. He is so in love with her he cannot see, or understand the reality of the situation. It is clear to us that she has decided that her future is with the new guy. I suppose it is the excitement of a new relationship that has her acting so cold and heartless. She does not need to continue this charade of caring for Sayn. For his sake, end it quickly if you want to move on. I fail to see what an unemployed guy that lives with his Mom can offer as a future, but lust can always be guaranteed to trump common sense. Sayn appears to be a nice guy, albeit way too trustful. Hard to believe that he does not know what is going on, and where it is going to go. Girls like Elli, seem to in many cases, pine for the bad boy, or should I say in her case the next guy. I am not usually a sop about this stuff, but I feel so bad for poor Sayn. Love obviously can cloud good judgement.

Very well said, an excellent summary of a difficult situation. As you noted this is Real Life Cam and today we all witnessed what real life is like. The good, the bad, and the ugly.. We can all learn something from this episode.