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Seems to be some confusion on what Denis does for a living. He is a bartender and works nights Accordingly he sleeps during the day. Should actually fit in well with Ellie as she likes to stay up all night and sleep all day. Before Christmas she worked some shifts at the same bar. Not sure this will continue. If it does continue there will no doubt be fireworks, if they are around each other too often. She was not bartending, but general labour, cleaning tables, picking up glasses, loading Hookahs, staying close to him.. etc...

Should be an interesting relationship with Denis, who does remind me of the the Leach.. From what I understand she has weaseled a job at the bar where he is the Bartender, in an effort to get close to him on full time basis. He does not seem to be the type that will put up with a lot of crap, especially if she is around him 7/24. Her mood swings are legendary. We know that she has told the Blond that her and Denis whom she has been seeing for a month, have had a couple of quarrels over the past weeks and they did not communicate for a few days each time. I assume these were the times she called Sayn and had him over for some drinking and casual sex. Yes Sayn did show up at the door a couple of nights ago, she was very cold, and sent him packing. He did however give her a necklace, which she has been wearing after telling the Blond it was rather cheap and meant mothing to her. While she seems very attached to Denis, I expect Sayn to called back onto the scene at the first sign of trouble between the new love birds.

From what I understand of the Denis/Elli conversations, they have had several quarrels already, which resulted in no communication for a couple of days each time. I would hazard a guess it was during these periods she invited Sayn over. He is a reliable backup... Soon as there is renewed communication between Denis and Elli. she lowers the boom on poor Sayn... What a shit show,,,

This Denis, whom she has been seeing for the past month. They have had quite an argument about lack of communication hand him not displaying his emotions. Sounds like a story we have heard before. This guy has some character, so I do not expect him to put up with her or very long. We will see. Still got Sayn as the backup. By the way he(Sayn) came to the door earlier today and gave her a necklace. She was extremely cold with him. She told Blondie it was junk, but decided to wear it on her date with Denis.. Confusing at best.

Sad to say she read the note to her mother. It was a well written love note that was incredibly complimentary of Elli. Could not say anything bad about her and begged for further communication of any kind, her choice. He said he could live without sex with her, but needed her friendship dearly. The Mother and her had a great laugh after. I sure hope they were laughing at another subject, but as they say, " the apple does not fall far from the tree". I assume this was the result of her sending him a text telling him to stay out of her life. This after two days in which they had a wonderful time together, and really seemed to enjoy each others company. They were like two kids, or new lovers exploring their inner most desires for 48 hours. She gave him great hope then stomped on him again. I may be off course here, but I have to think that Denis, or the Blond led to this complete reversal of her thoughts towards him. She is probably conflicted greatly by the advice of others. The Blond telling her to move on, and Denis indicating that Sayn has to go, if they are to have a relationship. Something has her confused, although we may never know. I expect Sayn will be back by Friday, and she will be sweet as pie after a couple of beverages. Two days later, out on the street. This poor guy may have to be put on suicide watch.

I am going to adiopt my conclusions a little. I think that Elli still has great affection for poor Sayn, maybe even some warped sense of love.. She is obviously using him, but last evening she had real affection for him. Bet she woke up sincerely regretting letting him see that affection. he will be banished for a a day of two and she will miss him again, or need something. Certainly a lot of dynamics that no can really explain. Only thing that seems to be a constant, is his sincere love for her. Misguided as it may be. I don't think anyone could write this script, as it is so strange, along with being riddled with bizarre contradictions. If this was murder mystery I would guess that the houseguest did it, with a vibrator.

I think I summed it up before. She is a Psycho and he is the love sick victim... Case closed...

Last night we witnessed one of the most callous and vicious evictions one could imagine. I know there will be Elli fans out there that will try to somehow normalize, or even justify her behaviour. Imagine she spent four straight nights with Sayn, having passionate sex with him multiple times. He did make a fatal mistake in having communications thru a chat app with another woman. Some may even see the equivalency here, in this being the same as having sex in the bathroom with a vagrant, while your better half sleeps in the next room. She basically tells him the day before Christmas to get over to her place and remove all and any of his remaining items. Additionally, demanding the key be left behind and he cease and desist from contacting her. He complied as any stray dog would, cowering to her demands. He did come back to return the key and her suitcase an hour or two later, but was meet with incredible bitterness and distain. This girl had given him a sense of security/hope over the four previous days and now stomped on him. In actual fact, she virtually reached down his throat and ripped out his heart. While he may be immature and have lots of issues, no one deserves this type of treatment, especially a day before Christmas. This was a dying man that she gave some life to, then stabbed him in the heart. Not sure if it was Denis or the Blonde that cranked her up, but if either of them did, then are as callous as she is. While this is in the long run the best thing for Sayn, he really needs to get as far away from this Psycho as he can. It is really a timing issue if she wanted him completely out of her life. He has been no doubt devastated. Probably unable to comprehend what and why this happened. I do feel for him, sitting alone in his dingy apartment over Christmas/New Years, while she parties and screws the nights away. I hope she has at least the decency to feel a little sad for poor Sayn. He may not deserve to be with her, but he sure doesn’t deserve to be treated like her door mat. He is still madly in love with her and probably will be for quite some time. I certainly understand where she is coming from in wanting to have some freedom. A female mid life crisis. I had one at thirty or so, but I did so with extreme respect for the partner I was tired of. I hope Denis realizes what is in store for him in the future.

This has been an absolutely incredible two days of conflicts, passion, and contradictions. It looked like Ellie finally gave in to Sayn’s amorous advances. She almost seemed a bit committed to him and enjoyed the two days of sex. However, it would appear this was part of her overall plan to ensure she has complete control over him. Over the past few weeks we have seen that any questions from him on her whereabouts, or who she is out with have led to his getting a verbal thrashing and banishment. Last night we saw passionate sex and then her getting dressed and heading out at 02:00 in the morning to meet Denis. She only stayed out and hour of so, but on her return indicated to Sayn that she was with Denis and then went to a Pavilion by the lake and talked. This was obviously a planned event in her mind that would serve two purposes. If Sayn complained, he would get a tongue lashing along with being sent packing for a few days. If he did not complain, as happened, she would be one step closer to total control over the situation and his future emotions. This is a classic behavioural psychological move designed to induce control over a subject. Funny, this behavioural move was first discovered by a Russian Ivan Pavlov. She has been creating the environment for complete control over him for the last month. Not a word about boyfriends and I will reward you with sex. The test last night was a complete success, Sayn is now completely under her control, will do all her bidding while keeping his mouth shut with respect to her late night activities. She is so confident of her abilities, I would not be surprised if she had them both over to the apartment some evening. Dangerous move, but one that probably gets her wet just thinking about it.

I expect to see Dennis and Luna show up over the next few days for their first look at the apartment. Interesting to see how Dennis reacts to the Cameras, I expect she has not told him about RLC.

I think the 7:00 this morning was a turning point. Not sure 1005 what was said, but I do know Dennis was a huge part of the conversation. Knowing how she works, the next info for Sayn was likely that she is going to Date Dennis to see how it goes. Both shed a few tears so this is probably the start of the end. She sure uses Sayn. Call him at 5:00 in the morning when she needs to go somewhere and he scoots over only to get the Dennis bad news. Not sure where she wanted to go, but she was looking for something in the bedroom closet before they left. My translator said she was looking for a map. However, it looks like she had some kind of a key which she gave so Sayn. Maybe they have a joint safety deposit box full of cash. What a shame how she manipulates this poor boy, and threats him like a doormat.

One week ago I had Dennis in the lead, Leach in Second place , with Sayn a distant third in the race to Bed Elli. After the weekend I have had to modify my conclusions. I now have Dennis with a substantial lead, Sayn moving barely past Leach into a very remote second, and the Leach sliding to a very distant third, almost completely off the radar. I expect in the next week we will have a new suitor based on the conversation last night between Elli and Dennis. This guy is a bit of a strange duck with some weird observations, including some unusual off the wall thoughts. Not sure how long he will last when the going gets tough.

htalked to Sayn today about Denis. Actually told Sayn that she told Dennis that she just got out of a relationship and it he (Dennis) wanted a relationship with her, he should get lost. I think she is setting up Sayn for the I'm going out with Dennis, but it is very plutonic.. Ha Ha The look on Sayn's face as she told him this story was incredible. He was in a daze trying to figure out where this came from and where it was going. She is a master manipulator, almost like a chess player setting up the moves. .. Has she ever grown up quickly. Far from the young girl that was playing with a rabbit all the time in the recent past. Maybe I give her too much credit and she is just floundering around in her only sick world...At his rate she will give poor Sayn a heart attack, or put him on suicide watch.

Her behaviour is very troubling. I am no expert, but she is displaying extreme symptoms of Schizophrenia. She seem to morph between two different personalities, with the changes consistently the result of emotional incidents. Alcohol is extremely bad for someone with Schizophrenia and can contribute to incredible mood swings and changes in character. Yesterday was a case study in personality changes and mood reversals. We saw it the day before, when the Leach was the recipient of her two personalities. Him, I do not feel sorry for. She could be in for some serious issues if indeed this is the case and she does not get appropriate professional care. Unfortunately, Sayn has had to experience the personality changes first hand and is obviously ill equipped to understand what is happening, along with being completely unable with respect to providing help. He is so in love with her, and may be her best chance at not ruining her life. He had a great opportunity to help her last night, but his passion is so misdirected. He needs to cool the love jets a little and let her come to him. One side of her still appears to love him, while the other truly despises him. One of her personalities wants him/needs him, but the other takes over after a couple of drinks and violently rejects his amorous advances Wish I could give each of them some advice, but it is not in the cards.

Not sure if I got this correct, but I believe Elli talked to Sayn this afternoon and they would be getting together on Saturday after her massage... I think is was Sayn, but it may have been the Leach or Dennis. They talked about drawing some Boobs and Genitals. Whoever the guy was, he said the discussion was getting him hard...

Sayn opened up a lot last night when they were in bed talking. He has no friends and is so lonely. He does not have the basic essentials of life in his Apartment, a stove a kettle etc... which has him really bothered. He has no money and is not sure how he will eat. Elli told him not to worry they will work it out together. Today we find out she spent the evening at a Bar and Billiard Hall with a guy named Denis. He came on to her a lot and she told her friend he had soft lips. Not sure if this is the Leach's real name.

Still feel sorry for poor Sayn. She is getting everything she wants, and he is moved to a crummy apartment. Keeping him close enough so that if other options do not work out, she can still have someone that treats her like a Princess. Additionally, he is close when she needs booze, cigarettes, or money. He is so madly in love with her he cannot see how this game is playing out. I suppose it is even more vicious to do this to him with only a couple of weeks to Christmas. I have had a lot of old memories return with the way she has treated him. Had a similar thing happen to me a few years back and I am still not completely over it. I was in love with a girl that decided the grass was greener on the other side, and and she basically did the same as Elli. I hope Sayn's heart is more resilient than mine, as I still pine for that girl years after the fact. I know exactly how he must feel. However, i was fortunately not strung along, as he appears to be. This is definitely taking advantage of his love. I remember a saying one GF quoted me. If you have a caged bird you let it go, if it comes back to you it is truly yours, if it does not come back, it never was yours. Not sure which one of them is the caged bird in this situation. I guess it is Elli. I realize that this is essentially a porn site, but these are still real people, with real feelings. I for one, want to show some empathy and compassion.

Yesterday, saw a replay of last weekend where Elli was able to lie and exploit poor Sayn to the point of no return. She is an amazing actress and Sayn is the dumbfounded patron watching the play. This is a train wreck beyond comparison. You have the lovesick boyfriend, the sneaky interloper, and the sadistic puppet master. If I hadn’t seen this play out, I would not have believed it possible. Wow, it is amazing how someone so young can be this manipulative, vicious, and cold hearted. She has a sinister plan and it would appear to be all falling in place. She wants the both of them, but for vastly different reasons. Sayn gives her security and a guaranteed extra income, while the Leach gives her the excitement of dangerous sex in places like washrooms, dressing rooms, closets, etc… not to mention a taboo relationship. I have seen Elli called a Princess on many occasions, which up until a couple of weeks ago was generally accepted. I always had her as an innocent, if not childlike soul. My opinion has dramatically changed. She is the essence of evil. It is alright to make a mistake and repent, but this is a well orchestrated plan to have both boys at her beck and calling. I actually see this as having the potential of getting out of hand entirely. Both guys may start to see the other as their arch rival who is essentially getting in the way of their true happiness. This could lead to disastrous consequences if one of them does something stupid like attacking the other. Unfortunately, this is the dangerous game she is playing. She is no longer the Princess, but should be referred to from now on in as the Black Widow. She is sowing a web of deceit that is ruthless/vicious to the core. Elli may someday look back and regret the entire sordid affair, although she has shown up til now a complete lack of empathy for anyone’s feelings. She will no doubt have to live with the consequences of her actions. So sad, yet totally avoidable.

Boy, it was hard to watch Elli & Sayn this evening. He takes her out to dinner, buys her flowers, helps her make Christmas decorations, tries to dance with her, all for naught. He tried to hug her, to cuddle with her, to kiss her, over and over again, only to be continuously rejected. He is so in love with her he cannot see, or understand the reality of the situation. It is clear to us that she has decided that her future is with the new guy. I suppose it is the excitement of a new relationship that has her acting so cold and heartless. She does not need to continue this charade of caring for Sayn. For his sake, end it quickly if you want to move on. I fail to see what an unemployed guy that lives with his Mom can offer as a future, but lust can always be guaranteed to trump common sense. Sayn appears to be a nice guy, albeit way too trustful. Hard to believe that he does not know what is going on, and where it is going to go. Girls like Elli, seem to in many cases, pine for the bad boy, or should I say in her case the next guy. I am not usually a sop about this stuff, but I feel so bad for poor Sayn. Love obviously can cloud good judgement.

Very well said, an excellent summary of a difficult situation. As you noted this is Real Life Cam and today we all witnessed what real life is like. The good, the bad, and the ugly.. We can all learn something from this episode.