i do agree with you me i am an honest and open person I have been beaten and phisicaly and mentaly aboused in a bunch of my relationships . when i saw this tonight it brought back alot of bad memories to me . I admit i am no angle . i used pot and alcohole to excape from it all . the last time i was beaten by my x wife was the last time . i got away from it and did some thinking about all that had happened to me in that 7 years we where togeather. 6 was married . after i left her i got my devorce . I have have not dated any woman since . i just met a woman about amoth ago but decided she wasn't the 1 for me . to many flags went up and saw she was the same as all the others . to demanding and money hungry . but when this happened tonight I had to act fast. she deserves some one that will not hurt her in any way shape or form Zoya I hope it wont b to late get out while u can u deserve better than that JERK.