Well said F.U. shesmine! I just want to add something. I know a lot women who doesn't get orgasm every time they have sex with their husbands or partners but complain nothing at all. There are a lot of them who are happy enough by the feeling of being fucked, being touch, being kissed and being loved. Quality time watching TV while caressing their hair, arms and hands makes them really happy. Some women love tenderness. But you are right too, men should also exert some efforts to give it back.