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B1 - General Topic 2025 #22 (November)
costa049 replied to Noldus's topic in B#1 Vivi, Jen, Vira (09/16/18)
If I understood right, a family member of Vivi (it seemed her mother) is in the hospital with something related to the breath or stomach. She's saying it can be a gastritis or something like that. I couldn't understand everything well. She looks a bit worried. -
B1 - General Topic 2025 #22 (November)
costa049 replied to Noldus's topic in B#1 Vivi, Jen, Vira (09/16/18)
Yes, but the only one who was up and naked was Vivi. -
B1 - General Topic 2025 #22 (November)
costa049 replied to Noldus's topic in B#1 Vivi, Jen, Vira (09/16/18)
It's not Jen, it's Vivi. -
B1 - General Topic 2025 #22 (November)
costa049 replied to Noldus's topic in B#1 Vivi, Jen, Vira (09/16/18)
1108 Vivi's friend left alone with a backpack. -
B1 - General Topic 2025 #22 (November)
costa049 replied to Noldus's topic in B#1 Vivi, Jen, Vira (09/16/18)
Jen on the couch pantless watching something on the tv and drinking white wine alone at 2am. -
B1 - General Topic 2025 #22 (November)
costa049 replied to Noldus's topic in B#1 Vivi, Jen, Vira (09/16/18)
You guys are drifting away from the crux of the matter. Even though we all have the right to our personal struggles and/ or to take moments of pause, it is important to keep the house clean and organized, especially when living with others. Maintaining a tidy home, taking care of hygiene, and properly managing trash reduces stress and prevents conflicts, shows respect for the comfort and well-being of all of us, and supports mental clarity for each of us. Contributing to shared spaces also promotes cooperation, mutual support, and a sense of community. Taking care of the home does not deny any of them their personal challenges or rest; rather, it ensures that living together remains harmonious, healthy, and considerate for each of them. And the haircut was the last straw for Jen. -
B1 - General Topic 2025 #22 (November)
costa049 replied to Noldus's topic in B#1 Vivi, Jen, Vira (09/16/18)
Both situations are bad, and you shouldn't be kind of trying to justify a wrong behavior. -
B1 - General Topic 2025 #22 (November)
costa049 replied to Noldus's topic in B#1 Vivi, Jen, Vira (09/16/18)
That's no justification, because she's a tenant of that apartment and she still does part of her life in there. Unless I misunderstood what you said. -
B1 - General Topic 2025 #22 (November)
costa049 replied to Noldus's topic in B#1 Vivi, Jen, Vira (09/16/18)
But since she doesn't do her part, she isn't showing interest in being part of the solution. It's a circle. Regardless of whether she has problems or isn't feeling ok living there, she still has to realize she's not living alone. And even if she was, she wasn't gonna live in a messy house. She's a grown adult, not an immature kid. -
B1 - General Topic 2025 #22 (November)
costa049 replied to Noldus's topic in B#1 Vivi, Jen, Vira (09/16/18)
Which is Tanya's cohabitation behavior of not tidying up and cleaning. -
B1 - General Topic 2025 #22 (November)
costa049 replied to Noldus's topic in B#1 Vivi, Jen, Vira (09/16/18)
But most of that still doesn't answer the main point. -
B1 - General Topic 2025 #22 (November)
costa049 replied to Noldus's topic in B#1 Vivi, Jen, Vira (09/16/18)
It's mostly her fault, with her posture and her behavior in the apartment since she joined. -
B1 - General Topic 2025 #22 (November)
costa049 replied to Noldus's topic in B#1 Vivi, Jen, Vira (09/16/18)
Yes, according to what I've been observing these last days, they’ve been arranging her coming on the phone. And this explains part of Vivi's recent long phone calls. -
B1 - General Topic 2025 #22 (November)
costa049 replied to Noldus's topic in B#1 Vivi, Jen, Vira (09/16/18)
And from what I could understand these days, a friend of Vivi is coming to town and she just went to pick her up. -
B1 - General Topic 2025 #22 (November)
costa049 replied to Noldus's topic in B#1 Vivi, Jen, Vira (09/16/18)
Why is there a skull hanging next to the couch out of nowhere?
