I'm not talking about the going out or the parties in general for that matter. I'm talking about her mind set this time around. Even you have commented about it. Maybe you don't think she's all that different this time but I do. She isn't the happy free spirit she was the last time. And I base that on what I see of her in the apartment. It's her body language, her facial expressions, and her overall general attitude. She just doesn't seem all that happy about it. Yes she has been up beat some but for the most part she has not.
We'll just have to disagree on this and enjoy whatever she feels like doing.