Oh no, you write a good piece and i agree with a lot. And i have always been very positive about it. Only with what happened last week and now suddenly there is an empty house all day, it's fair to say hang on, don't make a habit of this. I agree with the apt being active and i enjoy it all, but it's like anything in life - Someone offers something amazing and it is taken away, you feel gutted! So yes, i believe it isn't an open relationship, in fact i made a point of saying last week i don't think Park looked comfortable. But i stick by my point as well that we don't pay for empty rooms, if someone chooses to spend time out when they could be in. That's all. And that covers any couple, any apt.
And to be fair, i was the one who said it doesn't matter what happens outside because we can't see it anyway.