hilts122

I'm so confused!!!!

I understand but I can't do hypothetical because the thought of allowing my wife to bring home some dude or "guy friend", is so absurd that I cannot even imagine it. Also, on the flip side, I could never disrespect my wife like that. It has NOTHING to do with trust. It is about common decency and respect for your partner and your relationship.

The thing is, I would never do that to my wife or girlfriend! This situation is disrespectful as hell to your partner. I would never allow it, and would never do it to my partner!

My question is, how does a guy sit back and have his girlfriend or wife have another guy come stay at your house over night? On top of that, stay up all night, every night, with the guy and NOT realize she is banging the guy! If my wife told me she was bringing some guy home to sleep at our house, I would first refuse to allow it. Then file for divorce. There is no way in that scenario, your girl isn't getting banged by the new guy! They are NEVER just friends!

I mean seriously... Sayn had it coming! What guy would put up with there girl bringing some dude home to stay. That's a Chinese military parade size red flag. How did he think they weren't banging or going to bang?

Immature mind??? You're the only immature mind in this forum. You have no idea what low key flirting is! Case and point.... New Guy just banged Elli in the bathroom! Hell, he had her so worked up she was trying to do him in the kitchen! Soooo, which of us needs to get real?

Dude... I'm not seeing how you think new guy is gay? Also, if you saw what Elli and new guy were doing as just BFF comforting... you have other issues going on you need to concentrate on. That guy isn't coming across as gay, at all! I guess everyone else on this thread seeing what I am seeing are all wrong!?!

? He wasn't acting gay last night!

Reserving judgment?? 🤣 Well, if I walked in on my wife or girlfriend cuddled up with a guy (any guy) on our couch, with them holding hands, fingers interlocked with the guy kissing her fingers.... We all would have a serious problem and our relationship would be over!

Did you see when they were on the couch holding hands? While she was talking, new guy leans over and starts kissing her fingers. Dude, they were extremely physical and touchy feely. If I was in Sayn's place, I would be moving out rightnow! You need to replay Elli and New Guy's interactions from lastnight.

RLC needs to take a look at what is going on at Elli's. Sayn is getting more and more physical. He needs to be removed before something happens.

It is cold but that is exactly what is happening! Did you see Elli and New Guy last night after Sayn went to bed?

She is definitely giving him signs she is interested. Like how when she sits on his left side, she will move her hair off her neck and onto her left side and lean her head to the left... giving him an open view of her neck. Elli's neck is one of her sensitive/vulnerable spots. Remember her old side piece "Peter" used to lightly choke her when they would lay on that couch bed together and you could see how turned on she would get. She also keeps coming out in just her bathrobe in the mornings. She also keeps bending over at the waist in front of him then looks back at him when she stands up. Also, Sayn is watching them like a hawk. So Elli has to be subtle. Another couple things, she keeps wearing see through shirts with no bra and they will be all in each others space until Sayn shows up and they separate quickly. Tonight, just before Sayn walked in, Elli went and put a big green hoody on over her see-through pink shirt.

I don't think that is Elli's brother. There is no comfortable familiarity to their interactions. I have a sister and brothers. My sister is comfortable sitting next to me or leaning on my while watching TV or even sitting close or hugging me because we grew up close. It's nothing weird, just comfortable being in each other's space. These two, Elli and guest guy, seem to have tension. Like trying not to cross some line or barrier. When they were sitting close to each other on the air mattress working on the laptop, Elli moved and their knees touched and he jumped. That is not brother sister energy!

I wonder if the new guy is Sayn's replacement? How do you think until Ellie does to Sayn what she did to Vancel?