Hugging is illegal? Maybe in your country... lol If you said this in Russia, you would be not taken seriously.
The thing is Paul makes many things wrong but in my opinion Yulia is not better. Acting like little child (interestingly, Paul sometimes mentions this and she's mad when he does it :) ), not dealing with emotions, trying to control him, emotional blackmailing, etc. So when you're trying to prove that everything Paul does is bad and everything Yulia does is good, you're wrong. Totally wrong.
And turn off the Caps Lock next time.