Juli' ...
Well said. Please don't hold all of us up to the same light. A few posters forget their role in all of this and cross the boundaries of being appropriate. What you do is not easy by any means, and the majority of us appreciate all that you are without judgement.
It seems as though Leora is sleeping on the couch more and more. Doesn't seem that she sleeps in the bed together Paul much. Is it his snoring? LOL They didn't even kiss when he went off to work.