Elli & Sayn (2025) #8

[Maxbell]

30 minutes ago, desinc said:

 

She was talking to her mother who proceeds to talk about everything else but what is going on in Elli's life. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Her mom looks amazing though, much prettier than Elli.

Did you see her mom?

[Edward_Collins]

3 hours ago, ddhm said:

Things are more than simple . The couple stays together and they just lose time from their lives as the end of the relationship will come at another time or they make a peaceful  “ break up “ and they remain good friends and perhaps one day , when the time is right , they try again , more mature and experienced in life to enjoy whatever they would wish from themselves and life . 
 

Elli clearly showed she wants also other things apart from the ( good ) things that Sayn gives her , unfortunately for him , she wants more . Sayn has his job , his routine , a girl that doesn’t ask for a lot of things ( expensive clothes , jewelery , fancy life ) , they are two normal people that they do love one another but not the same love ( one - Sayn - sees him as even his future wife , the other - Elli - as a friend that she loves having in her life being a great person ) .

 

It is time to see if someone becomes a man or a woman or both and they abandon the boy / girl status they are currently. Life shows them to move on with different priorities , either they do and they save time from their lives or they keep on together in a life that Elli would have backed off and inside her she will be sad , since she will have stayed so as not to make Sayn unhappy . Let’s see , good luck . 

if he ( or anyone) remains " good friends" after a breakup like this, they deserve themselves....

[desinc]

33 minutes ago, Maxbell said:

Did you see her mom?

 

From the waist up through facetime.

[ddhm]

17 minutes ago, Edward_Collins said:

if he ( or anyone) remains " good friends" after a breakup like this, they deserve themselves....

This is the “ power of maturity “ . There’s not a better gift that showing superiority by realizing that the person you say you love deserves more than what you can offer currently .

 

It is a very complicated subject . You can love someone for the AMAZING person that he/she is but not emotional love , a friendship more than anything love . And you need to make the other realize this . Two people who can see beyond emotional love and put the friendship above anything , it is more than sure that one day they will manage to find the REAL TRUE LOVE PERSON emotionally . Very difficult to do as described . 

[Perth]

According to the telephone conversation she's  going to visit the leech because he is homeless now and looking for a job. And she is still between hammer and the anvil. She wants to help to her friend leech and sayn will not agree with that. And the one of the probable option is to keep leech's thing in her appartement. So the story will contonue.

[desinc]

 

Long phone conversation with Leech started with her saying she will not tell him anything that's happened because everything is being recorded. Of course he just keeps prying and prying until she relents and just tells him everything.

Basically Sayn was very upset at first and she said he had never spoken to her like that before.

Sayn calmed down later in the day and asked to be able to meet with her and she agreed. During this meeting Sayn said he understands her complaints and that he had gotten too comfortable in the relationship and pledged to radically change.

Elli told Leech she is skeptical that he can change and if he does is it for two days, a week, 6 months? also she skeptical of Leech because he is only presenting the best of himself right now and she hasn't seen the other side.

That's it in a nutshell. To be continued I'm sure...

[Perth]

And btw her mom/friend/sister who she was talking thinks that's the problem between sayn and leech and not becase of that she fucked with leech. 

[WhatdidIjustwatch]

She will keep fucking the leech and leading Sayn along.  Sayn will just keep going as usuall instead of manning up and getting out.

[Edward_Collins]

11 minutes ago, ddhm said:

This is the “ power of maturity “ . There’s not a better gift that showing superiority by realizing that the person you say you love deserves more than what you can offer currently .

 

It is a very complicated subject . You can love someone for the AMAZING person that he/she is but not emotional love , a friendship more than anything love . And you need to make the other realize this . Two people who can see beyond emotional love and put the friendship above anything , it is more than sure that one day they will manage to find the REAL TRUE LOVE PERSON emotionally . Very difficult to do as described . 

Ive tried it, it's a recipe for disaster and I've never seen it work 

[YupiSan]

It's better to watch A/A/M and not this useless crap. 

[WhatdidIjustwatch]

1 minute ago, YupiSan said:

It's better to watch A/A/M and not this useless crap. 

100% I like how they went to Angie's since they were UM

[ddhm]

18 minutes ago, Edward_Collins said:

Ive tried it, it's a recipe for disaster and I've never seen it work 

It always depends how you see life , I might be a single guy now because I always wanted to give the choice of happiness FIRST to the other person and then to mine . I always think and believe that if you manage to have the people happy around you by being a decent and good person , you have then achieved a big goal in life , that is having super excellent relationship with yourself . 
 

I am 48 and I haven’t been sick since 1997 ( nearly 30 years now 😂 ) , mental health is great , financially it is no complains , friends around , women in case fun is needed available , in general , good balance and just a peaceful and relaxed inner world happiness . But it is for sure difficult to reach a point that you can realize that thinking the happiness of a person you love very much is affecting your own happiness currently but in the long term , it will make you achieve and win way much more than having current temporary happiness . As I said, very difficult subject .