Let me refine my statement, because I know we are in agreement. I have constantly tried to defend the RLC men against the "My penis is bigger and better than his" statements. I defended Stefan for quite some time, but I lost faith in him when he became obviously so hurtful to Alma's feelings. I personally feel that Ruslan had a medical issue. Marcello was, well, odd, but so was his woman. Some of the other guys simply have no goals in life: at least they didn't or don't exhibit it. These gentlemen later earned their some of their derisive comments, but to judge any of them INSTANTLY when they first appear is what you mean by "clueless."
For example: Paul has suffered extreme abuse; none of it is justified. Kiko suffered abuse; none of it was justified. Even Stepan, Efim, and Anton got abuse from the moment they first arrived. All of these were intelligent, kind to their women (despite the fact that most of the women are problematic as well), intelligent, and trying to make something of their lives.
Little Squirrel is the last to judge people immediately: the best we can do here is to observe and hope that some of the couples are here as a stepping stone to a better life: others seem to have simply parked on RLC for the rent. We cannot really know their full stories, and certainly can't figure out who they are when they first appear at CamCaps. Accordingly, I will let Lucas and Veronica go about their business. As long as walls don't get punched in and knives drawn and medics called...
tu as tout dis mon écureuil préféré !!!
laissons les s'habituer aux caméras c'est déjà pas mal se qu'il font ! les participants RLC vivent leur vie au quotidien ne l'oublions pas
je te fais de gros bisous mon écureuil !!!! :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*