I understand I am new here, but I don't get what you are saying you pay her for sex. How is that if you are never with her? She does not appear to be a cam girl otherwise you would be able to communicate with her when she does a show which I have yet to see. You are paying to watch people in there homes if they have sex or masturbate to me that is a bonus if they just sit around clean house or take a bath or go out that's just part of life hence the name real life cam.
I think you have unrealistic expectations.