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It means “behaving” … no alcohol … being a good wife to Bogdan … no crazy scenes like she is prone to do. Acting normal? 😀

I think this trip shows that this relationship remains strong and perhaps is getting stronger. Even RLC is recognizing Nelly's absence which they did not do last time. Per our faithful translators, this is not a visit to Martina's parents. This is a holiday for the two of them. Let us not understate the importance of this. Even if this is nothing more than two close FWB's ... it is not casual like Elian and Finn. Nelly got through some issues with alcohol (which is usually a lifelong problem) ... and it is said that Bogdan is not happy about this but she seems to be prevailing over him. We know more about Alberto's financial situation and the fact that his life is stuck in neutral and how that is affecting Martina. Alberto may not support this either but he is in no position (now we know) to exert any influence. He owes her money! For my good friend JMAN, I really think Nelly is the focus of Martina's passion, not a guy and not Michael or Mike. This is both of theirs primary focus right now. I could even believe that Nelly has been behaving and walking the straight and narrow in order to have more time with Martina (bargaining chip with Boggy) as well as Martina perhaps telling her "I'm not going to waste my time with an alcoholic". Last time this was a "family visit" and Nelly stayed overnight in Martina/Alberto's apartment the night before and it was all rather benign and platonic feeling. Today they left on their own, left their beau's in bed I presume, and probably met at the train station -- almost like a secret rendezvous. Will be very interesting to see how things go when they return.

Well here we are watching Alberto feed the dog. So hot.

Hi Rosey. I do think the BF is more into Pam than Pam is into him. Early on I thought we had some discussion about Pam having a boyfriend back home and she was just toying with this guy. Now I am not so sure; she seems to have strong affection for him and surely enjoys pleasuring him. My point is that when evaluating the risks of casual sex, he may be thinking "Pam is the one" and if so, it would affect the decision process (and I totally admit this isn't a very rational decision process when in the heat of passion, etc.). He seems to be a rather shy guy and if he was not into her, I wonder if he would be going all the way. I'm afraid he thinks this is going to lead to something permanent (and it may) but he may be devastated if it falls apart. He seems very nice, almost puppy dog nice. Where am I contradicting myself? The contradiction between BF and Finn? Yes I admit this is a bit of a flaw in my theory 🙂 . Based on my theory, Finn wouldn't go for it based on knowing the internet never ever forgets. But he did. I also said this was not a very rational process. Guys tell me all the time they made bad decisions when the "little head" overruled the "big head". I admit on this topic I am not being very logical. But I do love imagining what is going through these people's minds knowing the cams are everywhere. I can't stop thinking what I would do.

Some people are critical of you (and me too) for all the high brow psycho-analysis of everything. But here in this post you basically get to the critcal issues rather directly with few words. Bravo!

I agree Pam and her BF are very fun to watch. Pam indeed is a very sexy girl, open and uninhibited. And the BF is cute in a teddy bear sort of a way. He certainly works his ass off to pleasure her. Pam may be one of the most open female cast members as I can't imagine any sexual escapade that she wouldn't engage in on cam. Also been fun to watch her develop and grow since she arrived as she is one of the first new arrivals for me since my arrival. As to your speculation about whether guys would come back with a girl and fuck on cam ... why only consider guys? Would girls do it as well? This is a very fascinating question. My initial thoughts are that there are so many risks to casual sex, why not add another one to the list? I know protected sex minimizes the risks of STD's and unwanted pregnancies ... so there's that. But bottom line ... is knowing your sex scene may be on the internet forever ... is that significantly more scary than an STD or an unwanted pregnancy? I'm not sure ... very interesting conversation. I think Pam's boyfriend might be assuming that "Pam is the one" and he is assessing the risk based on that which might come back to bite him in the ass. A better example is the other day with so-called Finn. He seemed like he was just up for a good time and didn't care too much about the cams.

Indeed.

Ah thanks. I did see Riya after I posted in the shower so I missed her and wondered if anyone noticed. I am not sure how I missed Gina and Bruno. I think I need to look in the rooms. The apartment looked empty and the motions were not firing (the green lights next to the room name). Being a voyeur is not easy! Half the time the motions are going off and it's the damn dogs! Other times the motions are NOT going off because the cast member is sleeping peacefully or not breathing or something like that.

I missed the DJ's but are we still going with this theory (i.e. no party)? It's almost midnight and don't these just start to get heated up about now? The four more likely attendees are gone: Martina, Gina, Tesla, and Elian. Boggy has Nel on a short leash due to her alcohol issue. Also no Pam or Ariana or Amira or Riya ... the "stay at homes" being the usual Vivian, Radi, and Monica. Just trying to pull together the facts on the ground right now.

Before I believe this, I would believe the so-called Michael that some believe is another one of her current love interests.

Is this how this is spelled? I thought it was cootch or cooch. All these years I have been wrong???? In U.S. we sit on a couch.

You don't like watching Alberto do dishes and play video games?????

Was just teasing Dalbert. Every time Martina's young school friend shows up, inevitably someone asks if that is the famous "Marta". We almost got through her visit without that being asked! Maybe next time. It is not Marta. I was wondering however ... what are the purposes of these visits? The thin girl often arrives late at night. They basically sit on the sofa and Martina hardly interacts with her as they watch TV, etc. One time they did play Cataan and Martina and Alberto got into a fight which I think was uncomfortable so her friend left. Then she sleeps in the guest room and is usually out the door the next day. Martina did kiss her good night last night ... so they have a friendship for sure. The two girls might be friends but they are not very close it seems to me. When Nelly is coming over Martina busts her butt cleaning and cooking ... but not for this girl. Yet I feel Martina has some compassion for this girl ... maybe she does not have a safe place to stay and sometimes comes here to get away from something. Anyway ... good opportunity for some good old-fashioned baseless speculation!

Nelly, Pam, Vivian, Tesla, Elian Nelly just jumped into the pool splashing T&E and getting their phones wet, etc. They seemed a little pissed but I can't understand a word they were saying and they seem ok now. Nelly was laughing in that hideous laugh of hers. Again she is very very impulsive.

We were so close!

Well over an hour and no one asked if that was Marta or suggested it was Marta. We are learning slowly but surely!!!

OK ... this one you CAN put into the Hall of Fame. And you would be the perfect one to introduce her at the induction ceremony.

Martina doing some cleaning now ... at nearly midnight ... so maybe she is tidying up for Nelly tomorrow before the depart to Valencia on Monday. Last time I think someone said the trip is easier from Martina's apartment as opposed to the villa.

Back now in pool.

OMG I love it. I have heard of "booze runs" but never a "booze expedition". Imagining coming back with loads of liquor packed on the back of sherpas.

To be clear I am wanting to know if T&E left with Vivian or did Vivian leave separately? I know it seems like T&E are inseparable.

This is a very interesting point. Yes stress can affect both sexes when it comes to performing and being selfless and loving to your partner. It is hard to focus on your partner when your own self is crumbling. Now combine this the subtle unwritten mandate that on RLC they are expected to fuck every so often. And they do. But the combination of all of this could explain Alberto's very mechanical, business-like, "get in get out" approach to making love to Martina. It is natural if you are under the stress of being sued and suing someone and have suffered huge losses ... to put all of that aside and focus on love and sex with your partner. But he knows she wants it, maybe needs it, and the RLC contract kinda demands it ... so he goes through the motions. For her part, she continues to love him and be sexy for him ... she has a high libido for sure but she might also be doing this to continue show her support ... "I love you, let me be a puta for you" etc. It is natural to want to support the one you love who is going through troubled times ... and this is not a bad way to show that support. But it could be having the opposite effect on Alberto by putting even more pressure on him (no job and now unable to satisfy my woman). Anyway, I was in the camp of "Alberto is lazy lover and needs a kick in the ass" ... but hearing more details about their troubling job/financial situation, maybe that is a premature judgement. Wouldn't be my first. This is all arm-chair psychology so take it with a grain of salt. I was going to tone it down but I like driving Mark crazy with theories like this.

Did they leave together? Maybe some time to build friendships.

I agree with you JMAN. Back to my theory about girls who settle for the "daddy types" but deep down wants someone who "rocks her world". It seems based on today's news that Martina feels she doesn't even think she can settle on Alberto if he isn't going to take control of his future.

This is what I saw too JMAN. I saw the pizza and I do not recall a backpack or overnight clothing. If this is indeed the Friday night school group … she will come back. What surprised me is that Nelly is alone and they did not try to capitalize on that today. Shout out to emnv for all the new intel today. Can someone clarify if we are talking about 90000 euros or 9000 euros. In one respect it doesn’t matter but it really is a huge difference. Martina offered to walk away from the debt but she should never do that if we are talking about 90000.