Not only do I have to go to work, I have to perform my job well, and do it consistently enough, so they would allow me to continue working there, and with that job, I am able to pay my mortgage, pay my property taxes, pay my water bill, pay my electric bill, and to work hard to earn enough money to have a life outside my job, so I have no sympathy for her, unless she's going back and forth to a doctor about some sicknesses she's experiencing, please believe me I have not stayed for so long because I did not feel anything for her, but this is how I feel now