I have to respectfully disagree ,our Princess knows exactly around the time she's due for her monthly visitor, so knowing that it was getting close to that time, she at the moment felt it was more important for her not to stay home but to do more things outside the apartment and when she finally decided to stay in, then she felt that her time will be better spent properly cleaning or getting in touch with friends, and yes maybe she did actually bated a couple of times( as I remember one of those bates actually happened after Paul finally after almost a week returned home) so I'm saying all of this just to say whatever her decision was at that time was certainly up to her but I don't buy it that she's feeling disappointed for not spending more time with us because she had the power to do the total opposite if she had desired to do so...... but I still love her and I'm just saying she's just living her life