First like i said i know girls are free to invite who ever they want, and won't ever make any reclamation to rlc about that ... and i think i wasn't propably clear enough ( english is not my first language) but i don't hate dudes being there, some of them i don't mind. And since you took the example of kiko he is maybe one ( maybe miguel too) that never interferd with parties / girl being naked, he ( they) were always discrete and were there for their women. And when they have sex, the first time i enjoyed watching them, but after that it soon become ( at least to me) boring like a regular "couple" appt.
I think this is the last post i make about the whole "dude being there", i'm getting tired of repeating myself. And no mather how many times i said it, poeple don't get that some poeple ( like me ) doesn't HATE or LOVE dudes being there, the world is not all about black or white it can sometimes be grey :)