Bleedblack

Hi Bleedback,

during the first years of marriage my wife used to go sometime out with her girl friends to go to the disco and it did not bother me.

But there are some things to point out:

1. It never happened that my wife was out for 10 hours returning at 6:30 in the morning !!

2. Before leaving house, Em embraces in a tormenting way Sid almost feels guilty for what she has in mind to do during the night.

3. When she returns, she embraces him lovingly as if to apologize for what she has done.

Did your partner do that? Probably not because - as you say - she had nothing to hide and her evening out was shared by both.

Note then that - at 6:30 in the morning - she went in the kitchen to send messages for 10 minutes. Does it seem normal?