Daemon, 4 things:
1. I was stating what I observed and one very obvious conclusion unless you think she's wandering street in her bathrobe.
2. When did I mention a man?
3. You cannot possibly know what she was talking about when she was in the BaR for all that time and admittedly neither can we, because she does not want us to hear.
4. You and I do not know what happens outside the flat.
I appreciate your information about the phone calls and obviously I believe you because I referenced what you said but it does not alter the facts. She has visited somebody more than once tonight, the last time for a whole hour. It is probably a neighbour but 2 bits of hitherto unobserved behaviour (and who observes more than me?) in the space of 2 days you must realise is ripe for speculation even though I didn't really make any.