Oh please! There is a reason it's called "RealLifeCam". It's about real life and people who actually got a life does not stay inside 24/7. No one promised the viewers girls who sit around all day and night just to make whining people like you satisfied.
If you can help her? Dude you live on a rosey red sky. She does not know you exist and there's no way you'll ever help her as you'll never meet her...Get out into the real life.
Do you know if he recently fuckd her? All I know is he used to be her ex. And an ex. can also be afuck buddy or a one night stand and still remain an ex.
I'm not 35, not living with my parents, not a virgin and not someone who sit in forums bashing guys they never met because they are in love with some camgirl they will never meet etc. ;)