I agree with you 100%... Unfortunately many men do not know that a girl would like to receive a hug, smile or some cuddles.. Not only use her sometimes to empty you balls..
Well maybe i'm strange... But when my ex looked at me in a naughty way or say something to turn me on, in 5 sec I was already banging her!!! So immagine if I fine her naked.... I can't figure out people like that scumbag!