Not they....SHE. T is doing all he can to keep it all together. Mostly he is doing to much, that's why he is sick all the time and SHE doesn't give a fuck. SHE is just waiting if he succeeds in one of his projects and SHE can walk around (freeloading) all day with the family credit card. Not gonna happen, but THERE both (at mid 30s) to stupid to see.