blanksy Posted February 28, 2014 Share Posted February 28, 2014 Unlike so much of this forum, I am not going to ditz Paul. Instead, here's a little encouragement. Your on the right track, today's sex session was better then most, and I'm beginning to think that Leora's inability to have an orgasm during sex is actually her problem and not yours. You're learning old boy, and that's the most anybody can ask of us, keep at it, and keep learning. The only thing I would suggest, when she decided that was it (during 69), and you should penetrate, ignore her and keep going until she orgasms. Trust me, women become a lot more sensitive once they've orgasm'd and i doubt any psychological issues would prevent her from doing so during actual sex at that point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
van the man Posted February 28, 2014 Share Posted February 28, 2014 I do think there is a cultural difference in Russia. As I have said before modern men are few and far between in Russia. Men rule the roost and women look after their men. Paul is probably a typical Russian even though he speaks English (and according to others he grew up in the UK) and seems educated. I want to like the guy but like Woodworker I find his manners very poor. He doesn't know much about sex and consequently he is selfish and self centred. He needs to watch lots of porn and learn more about the geography of women ie where is the clit!! Having found it he then needs to learn how to play with it!!! I would like to see them both prosper in life but I do fear for their long term relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panther063 Posted February 28, 2014 Share Posted February 28, 2014 I think his issue during sex is he does watch too much porn. They rarely give a realistic view of love making in real life, instead they satisfy basic carnal instincts. How often have you seen the man slowly tease the woman to arousal, or gently touch her clitoris? Instead they spit on the woman's vagina and their own dicks to make them wet, while rubbing the vagina hard to get a finger in before penetrating and pounding away for what seems like ten minutes but without editing would likely be 1 minute. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rugilator Posted February 28, 2014 Share Posted February 28, 2014 Fuck... This post went deep real quick... That said... this is the main reason I've crawled from the woodwork lately, theres a lot of good debate and counter debate on this site's ... Suppose I better look at full membership :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
van the man Posted February 28, 2014 Share Posted February 28, 2014 Thanks for sharing your story Woodworker. It sounds like you had a tough start in life. I guess being able to look after yourself and earn respect in your circle is important in the States. I guess it is the same in any country but in the UK we do it with knives rather than guns! I totally identify with never lying to friends. I have always said in my life that I may let down my family or my wife but I would NEVER let down my friends. Have you ever played the game of asking who you would entrust a $1million to if you had to give them the money without any record of doing so and rely on them giving it back to you. Who out of your friends (not family) would you choose to trust? I am pleased to say that all my friends have said they would choose me. I take that as the greatest compliment to my friendships. Be tough in life but always show respect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Squirrel Posted February 28, 2014 Share Posted February 28, 2014 I don't suppose the idea has occurred to anyone that perhaps Leora & Paul actually LOVE each other? And that some people bond emotionally to one another and that sex takes a secondary role in their relationship? Personally, I'm willing to give this couple the benefit of the doubt. Isabel and Marcello are opposite. They have great sex: but I have yet to get any indication that they have any psychological bonds, emotionally or intellectually. Or even historically. I admired their sexual athletics when the camera showed it; but I never felt that there was any empathy between the two, and I seldom bother to click on I&M as a result. If I wanted a fuck show, I'd just go to Motherless. On the other-hand, I hang out here more than RLC, and it's a big enough waste of my bandwidth...but you folks are, well, just so emotive... ;D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
van the man Posted February 28, 2014 Share Posted February 28, 2014 Wise words again Squirrel. I think watching porn is soulless for that very reason. It also explains why reallife and other such sites are popular. Watching two people who have a real connection is far better than watching professional sexual athletes perform! I am sure Leora loves Paul reinforced by her need to be with someone. She really is a little girl in a woman's world. She is lovely though!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Squirrel Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 Agreed, Van the Man. Perhaps that is why we still like N&K and want the best for them. They don't do sex on the free cameras; and such sexual passion could be faked anyway. But empathy for one another cannot be faked for long, either on or off camera. Empathy comes across candidly. N&K obviously know one another; they're more mature and not dealing with what they "want" or "imagine" the other to be; there is actually a connection between the two. They are a fully operational team. The other couples are still dealing with each other's conception of what they suppose their partner to be (A&S); don't exhibit any empathy toward one another (I&M, A&A); or are in between (M&S, L&M). Leora & Paul are a difficult study. They exhibit a full range of interaction between one another. Many times, when she's been upset, he has shown great compassion to her. I think all of it's real, and that it is rooted in a history of mutual inter-dependence that we just can't see or feel from a camera. I'd be happy if N&K could move on to better circumstances and get their careers on track. I'd miss her, but it would be for the best. However if Leora left, I'd probably never check in; although Maya is a wonderful woman, and Meerkat -- well -- Meerkat's cool. I'm essentially losing interest in RLC. Jaded. Old Squirrel. Boredom clips my wings...Leora keeps me interested; but I don't dislike Paul. I should fly away from CC, too. But I paid my 10 bucks for the year and want to get my money's worth. When RLC gets boring, CC starts rockin'. . . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Squirrel Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 For some strange reason, I find myself drawn to M&M peanuts. And I don't discriminate as to colour. (And for you fuckin' Brits, colour is really spelled "color."Let's get Dutch/Germanic efficient on this and knock off this French crap that infests the CC spelling checker! You like tradition? Well then, get pissed off and use Anglo-Saxon when it's more efficient. This overuse of vowels is wasting human bandwidth! And yes, I go to the theater, I don't go to the theatre. Got it, pilgrim?) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panther063 Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 Thanks for sharing your story Woodworker. It sounds like you had a tough start in life. I guess being able to look after yourself and earn respect in your circle is important in the States. I guess it is the same in any country but in the UK we do it with knives rather than guns! Be tough in life but always show respect. Sadly it used to be fists, but knives are taking over in our country, with young guys most likely to be carrying one. As for guns, we have our share of shootings, but only in certain areas and between certain cultures. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panther063 Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 Too true, all the so called "gangs" and different cultures trying to claim turf are what's causing all the issues on our streets. We're just a smaller version of America and the problems are growing with the population. I blame multiculturalism and the lack of integration by new immigrants. There's no respect between people anymore, particularly if you are the wrong color or don't speak the same language. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blanksy Posted March 17, 2014 Author Share Posted March 17, 2014 I'd agree with you on this one panther, the real difference between days of yore and nowadays, is the distinct lack of respect people show for each other. You can see this on the roads over here, when no-one has any patience for a learner, they seem to forget they were learning once as well. It seems that this lack of respect is inflammatory, what is almost laughable is that we are supposed to be one of the most learned cultures on the planet, yet we are failing badly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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