WhatdidIjustwatch Posted November 26 Posted November 26 My last thoughts on this are, Elli can't or just won't be honest with Sayn. If she wants to move on, sit him down and explain it. Sounds like she picked this guy off the street. Leech has been keeping her well liquored up and it worked. Sayn needs to listen and understand that she is done. Elli maybe relationship material but later in life. She holds onto a guy for a while before looking for something new. I think they Elli and Sayn show is on it last season.
hilts122 Posted November 26 Posted November 26 13 hours ago, ddhm said: Reverse .. You tell your wife you bring a female friend in your house to sleep over for some days for whatever ( honest ) reasons . The female friend you brought is attracted to you , you LOVE her company and you do exactly as Elli did all these days but without anything more , just great company , endless talks , sharing fun times for people , life , anything . Again , she wants more but you say you have a wife and that you love her . But she still wants you . We escape the obvious ( you would ask her politely to leave because you only wanted to host her as a friend , you deny each and every move towards you , your wife agreed first place to host her ) , should your wife go and file for divorce because you were just spending time with your friend ? Because in the end you WILL NOT HAVE BANGED the friend but she still believed you lie because of the all nighters .. what do you think of this ? Between a couple , there’s a basic fundamental element needed to be alive and exist . It is called TRUST . If there’s no trust , what’s the point ? Sayn trusted Elli with blind eyes because he hadn’t been getting any indications that there’s something happening . This means he didn’t know his girlfriend so well . The relationship is already broken but most examples in life show that the “ weak “ ( in our situation Sayn ) forgive but not forget of course , they give one more chance because they LOVE the other so very much and they believe that this person will change . I said it during the day , I think Sayn stays and gives one more chance to Elli. Elli becomes a complete “ nun “ and we as viewers will be watching Elli for her beauty and post here an one 30 pages topic in 2 months 😁 The thing is, I would never do that to my wife or girlfriend! This situation is disrespectful as hell to your partner. I would never allow it, and would never do it to my partner! 1 2
ddhm Posted November 26 Posted November 26 3 minutes ago, hilts122 said: The thing is, I would never do that to my wife or girlfriend! This situation is disrespectful as hell to your partner. I would never allow it, and would never do it to my partner! As I said , we skip the obvious , that is not doing it . We speak hypothetically that it happens ..
hilts122 Posted November 26 Posted November 26 Just now, ddhm said: As I said , we skip the obvious , that is not doing it . We speak hypothetically that it happens .. I understand but I can't do hypothetical because the thought of allowing my wife to bring home some dude or "guy friend", is so absurd that I cannot even imagine it. Also, on the flip side, I could never disrespect my wife like that. It has NOTHING to do with trust. It is about common decency and respect for your partner and your relationship.
ddhm Posted November 26 Posted November 26 I can’t understand that both of them can’t see the obvious , that is needing both a break of this relationship . The worse is that Elli was pretending to him that all is fine , hugs , kisses , sex . It only needs the POWER to sit down and speak and explain . It needed the arrival of a guy so as all these problems that were “ hidden “ to come on surface . The RLC obligation might be preventing them also for making decisions faster. As was said , the problems at least have been identified , it is completely up to them to GROW UP and move on or just stay CHILDREN and delay the inevitable . There’s no point when deep down , one of the two feels sad . Let’s see . If the right thing happens , I hope we FINALLY get to see the “ single version “ of Elli , that she take time for herself and enjoy her life . And when the time is right , she can go for someone again . Elli needs time alone . Has she understood it or she wants to ALWAYS have a person next to her so as not feeling alone ? Let’s see . 1
ddhm Posted November 26 Posted November 26 6 minutes ago, hilts122 said: I understand but I can't do hypothetical because the thought of allowing my wife to bring home some dude or "guy friend", is so absurd that I cannot even imagine it. Also, on the flip side, I could never disrespect my wife like that. It has NOTHING to do with trust. It is about common decency and respect for your partner and your relationship. All fine . I just say that when you have the maximum and ultimate trust , nothing should worry you of what your other half does . And there’s ALWAYS a way to be able and see things . A couple SHOULD ALWAYS TALK , ALWAYS . Communication ( and this is one more of the 5 elements that a relationship needs as I said in a previous post , the other 3 , the chat might reveal them 😇) .
Maxbell Posted November 26 Posted November 26 I think Elli is a narcissist. I don’t mean that to insult her. We all have personality traits that don’t serve us well. Simply nature and nurture. 1
Xarvaz Posted November 26 Posted November 26 So when all the smoke has cleared this is what remains of the apartment... absolutely nothing
Xarvaz Posted November 26 Posted November 26 1 minute ago, Maxbell said: I think Elli is a narcissist. I don’t mean that to insult her. We all have personality traits that don’t serve us well. Simply nature and nurture. can but I mainly see her as an empty head that is a bit late in developing
coolcucumber Posted November 26 Posted November 26 This thread was on 5.8k comments 10 days ago, now it's on 7k, only 1200 comments in the last 10 days, i expected a lot more. 3
Tabman Posted November 26 Posted November 26 2 hours ago, desinc said: From the waist up through facetime. oh. I smell milf. The picture was so small I thought it was The Rack. 1
Tabman Posted November 26 Posted November 26 2 hours ago, Perth said: According to the telephone conversation she's going to visit the leech because he is homeless now and looking for a job. And she is still between hammer and the anvil. She wants to help to her friend leech and sayn will not agree with that. And the one of the probable option is to keep leech's thing in her appartement. So the story will contonue. You got to be kidding me?? She is going to visit him? 😂 Sayn wont allow him to stay in their appartment anymore:
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