Elli (2025) #17

[Xarvaz]

4 hours ago, daerjohn2015 said:

Sayn, het beste en hopelijk laat je deze respectloze vrouw zien dat je haar niet nodig hebt.

Now he has to start believing in it himself and I don't have much confidence in that

[henriPas]

2 minutes ago, Xarvaz said:

Now he has to start believing in it himself and I don't have much confidence in that

Il a été très marqué par cette histoire. Il fait tout pour la séduire mais elle est partie, dans sa tête...

[chogdad]

Trouble is......Remember what tomorrow night is. Who will she be seeing the new year in with?

I know who would be the first name on many's list, and off we go again.

[daerjohn2015]

Ze las de brief van Sayn voor aan een vriendin aan de telefoon.

Zijn er vertalers die ons iets kunnen vertellen?

[bhen5432]

Sad to say she read the note to her mother. It was a well written love note that was incredibly complimentary of Elli. Could not say anything bad about her and begged for further communication of any kind, her choice. He said he could live without sex with her, but needed her friendship dearly. The Mother and her had a great laugh after. I sure hope they were laughing at another subject, but as they say, " the apple does not fall far from the tree".  I assume this was the result of her sending him a text telling him to stay out of her life. This after two days in which they had a wonderful time together, and really seemed to enjoy each others company. They were like two kids, or new lovers exploring their inner most desires for 48 hours. She gave him great hope then stomped on him again.  I may be off course here, but I have to think that Denis, or the Blond led to this complete reversal of her thoughts towards him. She is probably conflicted greatly by the advice of others. The Blond telling her to move on, and Denis indicating that Sayn has to go, if they are to have  a relationship. Something has her confused, although we may never know.  I expect Sayn will be back by Friday, and she will be sweet as pie after a couple of beverages.  Two days later, out on the street. This poor guy may have to be put on suicide watch.

[chogdad]

6 minutes ago, bhen5432 said:

Sad to say she read the note to her mother. It was a well written love note that was incredibly complimentary of Elli. Could not say anything bad about her and begged for further communication of any kind, her choice. He said he could live without sex with her, but needed her friendship dearly. The Mother and her had a great laugh after. I sure hope they were laughing at another subject, but as they say, " the apple does not fall far from the tree".  I assume this was the result of her sending him a text telling him to stay out of her life. This after two days in which they had a wonderful time together, and really seemed to enjoy each others company. They were like two kids, or new lovers exploring their inner most desires for 48 hours. She gave him great hope then stomped on him again.  I may be off course here, but I have to think that Denis, or the Blond led to this complete reversal of her thoughts towards him. She is probably conflicted greatly by the advice of others. The Blond telling her to move on, and Denis indicating that Sayn has to go, if they are to have  a relationship. Something has her confused, although we may never know.  I expect Sayn will be back by Friday, and she will be sweet as pie after a couple of beverages.  Two days later, out on the street. This poor guy may have to be put on suicide watch.

It's tragic comedy. I mean, she was crying....But for who? Maybe for herself. Yet she has caused all this mess. He needs her for a friend? IT WILL NEVER WORK. Any other guy gets in the way for him, any texts/calls get in the way for her. There is no way they can carry on. Even if Leech and Dennis vanish, sooner rather than later, she'll meet another guy and will be all over him.....Then Sayn is ignored and it's "Why haven't you replied today?" and all that.

Keeping Sayn around is the last thing you do to move on. Because you DON'T move on as a result. The fact Elli went mad at Sayn for talking to another girl was the most insane part yet.....

[WhatdidIjustwatch]

If memory serves me correctly when she finds a new guy the old on is forgotten about really quickly. No idea what is going on here. This go away come back thing is confusing. I am disappointed by the letter wish it was a good bye. Oh well soon she will just have a large flat ass with a duck face and fake hair. Better things to see.

[chogdad]

Just now, WhatdidIjustwatch said:

If memory serves me correctly when she finds a new guy the old on is forgotten about really quickly. No idea what is going on here. This go away come back thing is confusing. I am disappointed by the letter wish it was a good bye. Oh well soon she will just have a large flat ass with a duck face and fake hair. Better things to see.

You know - That letter was THE WORST thing he could have done. Why? It was PRAISE. No 'You are to blame' etc, just told her she was great.

Oh Sayn.......

[Maxbell]

15 minutes ago, chogdad said:

You know - That letter was THE WORST thing he could have done. Why? It was PRAISE. No 'You are to blame' etc, just told her she was great.

Oh Sayn.......

I think he is doing the only thing he knows how. The friendship with no sex is just his desperate state talking. He is not quite strong enough or sure enough to approach this intellectually vs emotionally. I give him credit for the letter, at least he is trying something different.
Just stay away Sayn, your head will clear up, you will realize you do not NEED her friendship. When/if you meet another woman, she will likely treat you better, but you will always be vulnerable. 

[chogdad]

2 minutes ago, Maxbell said:

I think he is doing the only thing he knows how. The friendship with no sex is just his desperate state talking. He is not quite strong enough or sure enough to approach this intellectually vs emotionally. I give him credit for the letter, at least he is trying something different.
Just stay away Sayn, your head will clear up, you will realize you do not NEED her friendship. When/if you meet another woman, she will likely treat you better, but you will always be vulnerable. 

Basically it was as if that letter was saying just one thing -

"No matter how long, i will wait for you".

[daerjohn2015]

21 minutes ago, chogdad said:

Weet je, die brief was het allerergste wat hij had kunnen doen. Waarom? Het was een compliment. Geen 'jij bent de schuldige' ofzo, hij zei gewoon dat ze geweldig was.

Oh Sayn.......

Ik dacht echt dat Sayn toch een beetje zelfrespect had maar hij is hier wel de domste in het verhaal, arme Sayn

Elly houd van drank, sex en uitgaan ze zal nooit een echte relatie hebben daarvoor is ze veel te labiel.

[chogdad]

3 minutes ago, daerjohn2015 said:

I really thought Sayn had some self-respect but he is the dumbest one in the story, poor Sayn

Elly loves drinking, sex and going out. She will never have a real relationship because she is far too unstable for that.

I thinks she gets bored very quickly. Routine isn't for her. So settling down is way off limits for her yet. Vencel, Peater, Sayn all know this. But for Sayn it looks like Elli is his world, like he'll never meet someone like her again. So, he can't let go because she is in his mind every minute of the day.