Esmi, Zabava (2026) #3

[CuriousOne693]

Certainly interesting listening to their conversations 😆

[Maxbell]

Bedsheet folding break. Lol. 

[Maxbell]

Have they discussed their favourite foods yet? 🤣

[CuriousOne693]

1 minute ago, Maxbell said:

Have they discussed their favourite foods yet? 🤣

She will probably offer to cook him some feet.

[CuriousOne693]

The whole time it feels as if an argument is imminent.

[Maxbell]

4 minutes ago, CuriousOne693 said:

The whole time it feels as if an argument is imminent.

Maybe, he seems to have a lot of things he wants his ‘woman’ to be. 
 

[ddhm]

Nice and sweet “ tiny baby “ steps from Zabava to move on with her life . Still , she tries and chooses “ safety “ above everything , getting to know someone behind the screen of a phone and not a “ live “ face to face date , pfff , so weird to think that people do so nowadays but it is what it is .

 

Now , the young sister AT LEAST tries slowly to go back to normal and leave behind the biggest love of her life , nobody knows if she succeeds but this can only help her to find herself again . At the same time the older sister behaves like she has QUIT loving life , nothing at all , zero sexual life , zero fleeting life , it is like for her the emotional loving world isn’t existing . It is really a pity that she has lost trust and belief , really really bad . 
 

Next challenge and perhaps the most difficult , will be to explain to this “ flirt “ the cameras , very very difficult but most probably the experience will help . 
 

Last but not least , I have nothing against Arabs but experience shows that 8 out of 10 Arabs aren’t trustworthy for European women ( NOTE , this is for Arabs residing away from Europe and not Arabs who now live in Europe ) . Experience and what I know from female friends , Arabs in Egypt , Morocco , Tunisia and so on , they just see the girls as a “ vessel “ to move in Europe and escape  their countries . When then in Europe , they just not stop flirting and discover the European way , therefore a lost cause . Arabs though born in Europe or living since very very young , it is another  culture . I hope Zabava has found a guy that will treat her with respect as she totally deserves and not one more guy who just wants to play with her . Hoping for the best for her . 
 

PS . Just found out he is Egyptian , perhaps the most dangerous flirting Arabs of them all 😂😂… good luck … 

[Maxbell]

9 minutes ago, ddhm said:

Nice and sweet “ tiny baby “ steps from Zabava to move on with her life . Still , she tries and chooses “ safety “ above everything , getting to know someone behind the screen of a phone and not a “ live “ face to face date , pfff , so weird to think that people do so nowadays but it is what it is .

 

Now , the young sister AT LEAST tries slowly to go back to normal and leave behind the biggest love of her life , nobody knows if she succeeds but this can only help her to find herself again . At the same time the older sister behaves like she has QUIT loving life , nothing at all , zero sexual life , zero fleeting life , it is like for her the emotional loving world isn’t existing . It is really a pity that she has lost trust and belief , really really bad . 
 

Next challenge and perhaps the most difficult , will be to explain to this “ flirt “ the cameras , very very difficult but most probably the experience will help . 
 

Last but not least , I have nothing against Arabs but experience shows that 8 out of 10 Arabs aren’t trustworthy for European women ( NOTE , this is for Arabs residing away from Europe and not Arabs who now live in Europe ) . Experience and what I know from female friends , Arabs in Egypt , Morocco , Tunisia and so on , they just see the girls as a “ vessel “ to move in Europe and escape  their countries . When then in Europe , they just not stop flirting and discover the European way , therefore a lost cause . Arabs though born in Europe or living since very very young , it is another  culture . I hope Zabava has found a guy that will treat her with respect as she totally deserves and not one more guy who just wants to play with her . Hoping for the best for her . 
 

PS . Just found out he is Egyptian , perhaps the most dangerous flirting Arabs of them all 😂😂… good luck … 

I just heard the Egyptian thing too. The way he is talking the woman is second class there. He is saying that he doesn’t believe in that but I am suspicious….I think she should get personal references from past girlfriends.
She needs more modern thinking guy imo, before she gets into anther fucked up relationship. 🤔

[CuriousOne693]

1 minute ago, Maxbell said:

I just heard the Egyptian thing too. The way he is talking the woman is second class there. He is saying that he doesn’t believe that…I think she should get references like you do with job applicants.
She needs more modern thinking guy imo, before she gets into anther fucked up relationship. IMO. 

Probably already too late 😢

[CuriousOne693]

This is very interesting. I wonder how she meets these guys. Through online dating sites? And when does she decide to "swipe right"? I get the feeling that she is attracted to men who are strong (hesitant to say dominant). Earlier she asked if he wants a woman to work or stay at home. She also said that the guy must be more successful than her, financially and career-wise. He said that the woman must work, otherwise she will not interact with people and won't have a personality.

OK, let me get to the point. Their conversations make me depressed. And I blame both parties. There is no compassion, no love, no endearment, no support. It is like a clinical business meeting. WTF!

[ddhm]

10 minutes ago, Maxbell said:

I just heard the Egyptian thing too. The way he is talking the woman is second class there. He is saying that he doesn’t believe in that but I am suspicious….I think she should get personal references from past girlfriends.
She needs more modern thinking guy imo, before she gets into anther fucked up relationship. 🤔

Yes , I also watch this now because it makes you understand really many many things for Zabava and this new flirt . The guy seems educated and not “ deeply “ flirting , he has good approach . But the first days / weeks are always nice 🤣, the face to face will be even better as they are also good to provide fun . If Zabava wants one more relationship when she’s not “ clear “ emotionally from the German guy , it won’t end up well . The best it is usually to start something just for fun and enjoy whatever life gives you and if you see any potential or your guts and instincts say “ what the fuck , why not try for more “ , the she should proceed ( of course if the guy wants as well ) .

 

Other than that , I don’t think it is a “ safe bet “ for Zabava to start something “ serious “ new , very very difficult to make it work and succeed , no matter I say again how much I would LOVE to see her happy . 

[ddhm]

Just now, CuriousOne693 said:

This is very interesting. I wonder how she meets these guys. Through online dating sites? And when does she decide to "swipe right"? I get the feeling that she is attracted to men who are strong (hesitant to say dominant). Earlier she asked if he wants a woman to work or stay at home. She also said that the guy must be more successful than her, financially and career-wise. He said that the woman must work, otherwise she will not interact with people and won't have a personality.

OK, let me get to the point. Their conversations make me depressed. And I blame both parties. There is no compassion, no love, no endearment, no support. It is like a clinical business meeting. WTF!

They are just getting to know one another behind the safety of a phone , they have the language barrier as the guy speaks better English ( Zabava is ok with basic English and the more she speaks she expands her vocabulary but when it gets too “ philosophical “ talks , I think she gets a bit confused ) . 
 

The best would be to get some fun and like this remove herself even more from her ex , the question is WHY with so many thousand men in Barcelona , she seeks attention online ( yes , safety and bla bla and a recent sad experience with a distance relationship , so , I would expect she tries differently ) … oh well , women …🤣