Burnout

[Amy3]

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[golfer06]

as a person with an addictive personality i can understand where you are coming from amy. many times i have beaten the proverbial dead horse into the ground. i'm older now & i try to do other things in between wearing out my addictions knowing that if i don't stop & rest on occasion i will not enjoy the things i'm doing & will have to look for something else. that's why even though i complain when nothing happens i actually am relieved when there is a day or 2 that nobody is doing anything. the week that had naked saturday followed by terry & anna's gangbangs i was exhausted cause i didn't rest as i didn't want to miss anything. i'm sure that there will be more things like that coming up & i'll have to pace myself. that's why it's a good thing that we have the timeline & archives. with the dedicated ops that we have saving the moments we will be able to pick the best stuff & not have to feel like we missed something which would then cause great anxiety & a quicker burnout which would eventually lead to no longer enjoying the substance of why we are here in the 1st place. no need to feel guilty about taking a break. the material needed to catch up will still be there. cc & the voyeur sites will go on & continue to be fun for us as long as we don't let it take over our lives. relax & enjoy !!!!

[Unsichtbarer]

I don't like the development of vhtv either. But there are enough apts. available, so I can choose what I want to watch. I hardly watch some of the apts. (Lena's or Anna's for example), but there are others I watch on a regular basis (Jeka's or Mika's for example.). It's much more exciting for me to watch Layne trying to reach someone's gate to heaven, than watching this porn shit at Anna's. So I wouldn't call them the same, there are differences between the apts.

I can understand that you are tired somehow. I'm in my early 40's and with the age comes change. I see things in a different way, as they were 10 years ago. I'm way more patient than I was in the past. Maybe this is why I can still enjoy all these voyeur sites. Perhaps I just "sit it out", hoping for a change to the better. I don't know. What I do know is, I'm far away from being burned out and I hope that this won't change for a long time.

We shouldn't forget that we don't pay for the right to tell the tenants what they have to do. We pay for the possibility to watch them on their daily routine, more or less. Needless to say that they need to do more than sitting on their butts and staring into space. So there will always be some kind of acting. But as long as they don't act like a complete different person as they would normally be, I'm fine with a little acting.

I say this, because cc has become one of the biggest voyeur communities out there. All these sites watching us. They reading our comments. They gathering information and with this information, they can derive a trend. If they see a trend, they can react to it. For example, if most of the people complaining about the lack of sex, they will react to this and add more sex to their sites. That means there will be even more acting.

That being said, our comments have the power to influence their development. So we should always keep this in mind.

That's an interesting subject by the way. Thanks for bringing this up, Amy.

[Hectorxx1]

Can I have your stuff lol!

You'll be back.

[Hectorxx1]

41 minutes ago, Amy3 said:

Haha! You wish. I'm not going anywhere though. Just trying to prioritize and gain some perspective on what I really want. There was a time when a person could follow every everything on these sites. That day has passed unless you're ready to devote all of your time to this.

yeah... it can be full time job which doesn't always pay. 

are you sure I can't have your stuff?

[golfer06]

i just wanted to add that a quick way to burn out is to watch a & a apt set up for what should be a gr8 party only to have it ruined by some prudish little twit named ashley. i need a rest after that disaster so i am going to catch up on some tv shows that i have been ignoring so that i could catch the excitement of voyeurism. not.