I guess self esteem was the wrong word, she has accomplished a lot in her life--great in school, career, lots of close friends and family, marriage, and a child just to name a few.
Body image would have been the correct word to use. I just ignore Harley, because he has always been terrible in way he attacks other people, their ideas and their feelings before he thinks and tries make others as miserable as himself. It is really sad that he would attack someone's family and parenting skills without really knowing anything about it.
This was posted before I read his last post above. But kind of like in a court of law after the damage is done, the judge says "disregard the last statement". Some things cannot be forgotten under the guise of an apology.