My opinion about the whole story is, that you must have a thick skin if you present yourself online. There are always likers and haters.
I mean, it is bad that she that she is offended, but that's the Internet. If you show your boobs and your kitty (although the text in the profile says, that you dislike pornography (funny isn't it)) there are always people who like and enjoy it, and people who don't like it.
And if your self-confidence is so low, that you get offended by some opinions in a forum, although most of the Users say, that they are enjoying to watch you, you should probably think that whole webcam thing over.
The Pirate has spoken! :)