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How can she distance with him if she needs to phone him every single day ? How can she moves on when and after a quarrel with her current story she would phone him ? And at the end , is this what Leora needs or what we think it is the right thing for her ?

Exactly as you describe .

I think when you know and trust your friends , you can understand how the comments appear to be , either negative or disparaging .

Thanks for clarifying Slipper Guyquad 😊

I am reading the whole evening that for whatever is happening , it is the guy’s fault , I mentioned Leora exactly because of that , that it might be also her mistake , obviously then it is both of them being wrong . About Paul and whatever life Leora wants I can only repeat myself unfortunately . In order to move on , you have to take some hard decisions , no matter what you will leave behind , hurt people and so on . It might sound selfish and for sure is but at the end no one cares for us except ourselves . And the truth is that no one cares for Leora the most except herself .

If you love someone , you make anything in your power not to lose this person , despite the complexity and the problems . In life you can’t have all , in some things you win , in others you lose . For the posts of tonight i understand that Leora needs Paul more than anything at the moment . There are restrictions in traveling , but mostly have to do with quarantine when you go to a destination . Maybe she should just pack a suitcase , visit Paul and the dog and clear her mind . But I don’t know or it hasn’t been cleared if Paul would really like that as well .

I hope then that this intermediate interaction that she has with other members to help her realize lots of stuff that concern her . Still , if you allow others with their opinions, no matter how good or bad they are , to affect the decisions you are making in your life and at the end not being clearly the decision that she wants to make for herself , this shows for me a very weak person who doesn’t trust herself , especially when it is a hard decision that needs to be done . No one should have control of anyone’s life .

I don’t think that Leora doesn’t know that people care about her , the problem is to know that we also care if sometimes we speak some negative words . This is the meaning in my opinion of people who really care .

And this is for me the mistake of the story and thank you GAG-HER because with this post , you are solving so much of my thoughts . Without trust and not faith to the person you are starting something new , a relation will be doomed to fail . Quite obvious for me then why we reached this point . Of course I don’t say that they should tell them from day1 , but after a month that they were together , they should have trusted them with this big issue . No trust and faith , absolutely zero chance to succeed anything serious .

A lot of good points , I will disagree on the comment that she doesn’t need a man in her life . At a certain point you will always want a nice and sweet good morning and good night with hugs and kisses , obviously sex when you are at this age . The problem is that few people can develop real feelings for another person when they go out of a long time relation . As I have said , i think this relation for Leora was kind of a “ rebound “ from Paul , as soon as the honeymoon months comes to an end , the problems arise . The time maybe then has come for all of those problems to come to surface and the incidents of today were perhaps the result of such explosion .

Then no one of us should advice her of what to do because she knows no one of us , at least physically .

How we know she wasn’t in contact with him ?

In life you need always to hear also the things you are doing wrong , your negatives . If all the time people worship you and don’t want to tell you also what maybe you are doing in a wrong way , you have never the chance to evolve and become a better person . It is so much time now that a lot people here try to say the bad things , not because we hate her or we disgrace her or whatever negative adjective there is , but I have said it so many times , only through hard criticism someone can become better and stronger . If all the time you are “ sweet Leora this “ , “ sweet Leora that “ , you keep on this person sleeping and not waking her up . The true and real friends should speak the hard way to her so she can maybe in this way understand how real our concern is for this woman . Hard and straight to the bone and soul talks and not cuddles .. this is what real friends do , speak the truth even at the hardest times .

I am sorry to write something like this , but why this can’t be Leora’s mistake ? Why should be this guy fault ? Why maybe isn’t he ( the guy ) upset that he keeps on talking to Paul ( he should never be for such a reason of course , it is her life and she has all the right of the world to do like this ) , but maybe they have spoken about that and he doesn’t feel comfortable talking to her ex ? It is just an example and not something taken for granted . I just can’t understand why can’t we say that maybe Leora is wrong and again put the blame to the partner / boyfriend or I don’t how to call him ?

If it was still Paul ( assuming that Paul also wants her in his life ) , the solution is obvious .. you pack your things, you say goodbye to Prague and you go back to a life that makes you happy .. but I think we all know that even if that was happening , it would be just temporarily , Leora would always want this luxury life , at least of the things we have seen all those years . I think what jimbo4 said earlier , describe the whole truth .

This is the question of the evening I believe as we speak like we know what was exactly told . But then , we are at the speculations topic .

I don’t think that anyone should be blamed except herself that all this has stop . It was her decision as it seems not to continue with such activities in Prague .

The problem is that no one has made any comments like this the last 4 months , it was always Leora and Malia and how they will perform and cuddle and touch and smile and so on . It seems that a lot has been happening but there has been hardly no comments concerning that , there have been voices here judging of things we have never seen her doing in the past , but for all of this , for some people it was that we speak negative about Leora . Maybe we could see what was coming and that not all was / is as “ shiny “ as many believe .

I think deeply she knows what needs to be done , unfortunately it seems and it is for sure difficult to convince herself for a difficult decision that is as suggested here , to abandon this guy .

All these , it just shows a confused person who doenst actually know at the moment how to handle the situation . The only thing needed at such times , it is to put your phone away , take the time for yourself , have a drink and absolutely not to care for anyone and anything , she just needs to do things only for her . And maybe like this she realizes that what matters the most is herself because no one cares for Leora the most than herself .

Maybe this calm and relaxation is the reason of this storm currently or the last 2 days or so .. perhaps she was swallowing all the sad feelings or anger and she just exploded .

The more you “ disturb “ someone , the more you push him / her away . The way she acts , she just sends him more far .. and maybe this is what she can’t handle , the idea of not being accepted and that there’s a man who says no to her .

It would have been really difficult without Malia , I can’t imagine how she would have handle all .