She ruins spontaneous fun with her director/management style of play. It's impossible not to see, unless, of course you are infatuated with her. To those she would be a million times better in a straight up camming session. Real life, real emotions, real spontaneity escapes her and ruins the whole experience for the VV viewer. I think Ben means he hates her being on VV. With the exception of Dennis, it seems we all do.