That's so deep and easy to understand.
For me "trap" from hentai . Wanna be a Futanari .
For surgery i thought so too . If we can't biologically shape shift ourselves, so there is no point to cut penis/vagina , it's not change anything literally.
And for closed minded ,well , I have no social or moral boundaries ,because I don't understand human relationships or feelings . So i can ask or do whatever i want and sometimes hurt people , and it wasn't my intention .