Leora & Paul (2026) #3

[dougiestyle4u]

4 hours ago, Mister said:

 

Paul is permanently in a passive, adaptive role. His socialization was likely shaped by missing paternal correction and a dominant maternal influence. From this, an internal behavior pattern developed wanting to please, avoiding conflict, putting his own needs aside. This pattern is not a character trait, but a learned strategy to secure relationships.

In the relationship dynamic, this strategy leads to a structural role reversal. Leora takes over the controlling and limiting role. Closeness, sexuality, and decision-making space are controlled by her, while Paul remains reactive and uses withdrawal as a way to deal with conflict. Public humiliations are not accidents, but symptoms. An MMA fighter as a desktop background is not a coincidence, but a clear display of power. Paul accepts it. Silently. He interprets disrespect as provocation that he must endure. By doing so, he finally signals the abandonment of his dignity.

His natural aggression is externalized and ritualized. In training, which he attends only occasionally, it is briefly allowed to exist, controlled, regulated, without consequences. In the relationship, it remains taboo instead of being effectively integrated there. As a result, there is no tension, no friction, and no mutual recognition that a woman needs. There is also no real conflict with him. He is the “Mister Nice Guy,” but over time she did not or does not become happy. The relationship slowly decays.

For Leora, this constellation is stable because it offers predictability and control. For Paul, it remains dysfunctional, because his original promise to be different from his father ends in complete self-denial.

The problem is not a lack of kindness, but the loss of agency. Without clear boundaries, the ability to handle conflict, and personal interests, the relationship collapses, or someone else enters.

Some women look for their "sugar daddy" to provide a good life for them - love, protection, security for life and provide for their every needs. Well, Paul has found his willing "sugar mommy" and dares not to ruin it or he knows that he would end up being a homeless guy living in the streets. Simple. So he receives ALL the benefits and Leora comfortably enjoys the role of being the "slave woman". Leora the "giver/doer" while Paul the "taker/loafer". Paul is laid back in more ways than one because Leora allows it and she loves to control the show when it suits her.

[pulo filipe]

Leora She loves to drink milk. 

[ddhm]

6 hours ago, Mister said:

 

Paul is permanently in a passive, adaptive role. His socialization was likely shaped by missing paternal correction and a dominant maternal influence. From this, an internal behavior pattern developed wanting to please, avoiding conflict, putting his own needs aside. This pattern is not a character trait, but a learned strategy to secure relationships.

In the relationship dynamic, this strategy leads to a structural role reversal. Leora takes over the controlling and limiting role. Closeness, sexuality, and decision-making space are controlled by her, while Paul remains reactive and uses withdrawal as a way to deal with conflict. Public humiliations are not accidents, but symptoms. An MMA fighter as a desktop background is not a coincidence, but a clear display of power. Paul accepts it. Silently. He interprets disrespect as provocation that he must endure. By doing so, he finally signals the abandonment of his dignity.

His natural aggression is externalized and ritualized. In training, which he attends only occasionally, it is briefly allowed to exist, controlled, regulated, without consequences. In the relationship, it remains taboo instead of being effectively integrated there. As a result, there is no tension, no friction, and no mutual recognition that a woman needs. There is also no real conflict with him. He is the “Mister Nice Guy,” but over time she did not or does not become happy. The relationship slowly decays.

For Leora, this constellation is stable because it offers predictability and control. For Paul, it remains dysfunctional, because his original promise to be different from his father ends in complete self-denial.

The problem is not a lack of kindness, but the loss of agency. Without clear boundaries, the ability to handle conflict, and personal interests, the relationship collapses, or someone else enters.

👏👏

[ddhm]

1 hour ago, dougiestyle4u said:

Some women look for their "sugar daddy" to provide a good life for them - love, protection, security for life and provide for their every needs. Well, Paul has found his willing "sugar mommy" and dares not to ruin it or he knows that he would end up being a homeless guy living in the streets. Simple. So he receives ALL the benefits and Leora comfortably enjoys the role of being the "slave woman". Leora the "giver/doer" while Paul the "taker/loafer". Paul is laid back in more ways than one because Leora allows it and she loves to control the show when it suits her.

Still .. the rumors say that as soon as Leora departed to Europe , he found a girlfriend for a certain period of time . Maybe he couldn’t handle her as he does with Leora ? Maybe Leora didn’t feel she could have the same “ freedom “ she gets from Paul when she had the guy in Czech Republic ? 
 

The truth is that this is a SAD SAD SAD life to look at between these two , it is like the time has overcome them and they belong in a different era , different culture , different way of living. I think they are really happy that they have one another because actually NONE OF THEM knows how the world really is nowadays . 
 

If they stay socializing , they will lose all knowledge they believe they have on how this earth sphere spins . 

[pulo filipe]

Leora Wearing a nice white t-shirt in the kitchen 

[pulo filipe]

Leora Paul Eating in the kitchen 

[lovesthefeel]

It looks like she's gotten herself some fish lips. I'm surprised. I always thought she was too enamored with herself to do any kind of body modification. They look pretty stupid from the side.

[matilda]

was ist das nur für eine behinderte drecksratte der hässliche faulenzer

[Anode]

il y a 22 minutes, ddhm a dit :

Pourtant… la rumeur court que dès le départ de Leora pour l'Europe, il aurait eu une petite amie pour un temps. Peut-être ne la gérait-il pas comme Leora ? Peut-être Leora ne se sentait-elle pas aussi libre qu'avec Paul lorsqu'elle était en République tchèque ? 
 

La vérité, c'est que leur vie est vraiment triste à voir. On dirait que le temps les a rattrapés et qu'ils appartiennent à une autre époque, une autre culture, un autre mode de vie. Je pense qu'ils sont vraiment heureux de s'avoir l'un l'autre, car en réalité, aucun d'eux ne sait comment est le monde aujourd'hui. 
 

S'ils continuent à socialiser, ils perdront toutes les connaissances qu'ils croient posséder sur la rotation de la sphère terrestre. 

Bonjour ddhm ;

Le comportement de Paul est aussi un peut dû au manque de rigueur de Leora ,a vouloir gérer tout a presque  lui torcher le cul ,elle devrait lui dire de ranger ces affaires ,de débarrasser sa table quand il a fini de manger de faire son lit et d'aéré sa chambre de se laver journellement et changer de tenues vestimentaire régulièrement et de fermer sa bouche quand il mange au lieu de le laisser vivre dans la nonchalance !!

[Chris gregg]

3 hours ago, dougiestyle4u said:

Some women look for their "sugar daddy" to provide a good life for them - love, protection, security for life and provide for their every needs. Well, Paul has found his willing "sugar mommy" and dares not to ruin it or he knows that he would end up being a homeless guy living in the streets. Simple. So he receives ALL the benefits and Leora comfortably enjoys the role of being the "slave woman". Leora the "giver/doer" while Paul the "taker/loafer". Paul is laid back in more ways than one because Leora allows it and she loves to control the show when it suits her.

Spot on