True. One other thing to be aware of is letting members have video or pics by PM. You have no way of knowing if the video or pic you sent them will be passed on to another member or posted on another web site. This may be what happened to you, legrandrobert. There are many honest and trustworthy members here, but there are also some members that don't care if you get banned or not and will re post your video or pic without you knowing it.