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Having been in the lifestyle for over 20 years I am able to speak on this and hopefully provide some clarity. The vast majority of couples who engage in swinging as a lifestyle choice are in very strong committed long term relationships. They will al tell you the same thing, and that is communication is the key for success. During this foursome you were able to see classic swinging behavior. Touching, hand holding, and kissing their partners (this is sometimes referred to as re-connecting), all couples have predetermined signals and sometimes safe words are used to indicate in a private fashion to their partner that they are no longer comfortable and wish to stop. Most couples that divorce after trying swinging have most likely done so due to pre existing issues, and have tried swinging as an effort to save an already failing relationship. Several things must be in place in order for a relationship to survive the swinging lifestyle: 1) your relationship must be rock solid, you must trust your partner without question 2) you must have impeccable communication with your partner, establish rules and hard limits and stick to them 3) you must be able to compartmentalize love and sex and understand that they can be separate entities 4) zero jealousy, you must understand that no matter how big and bad you may be there is always someone bigger and better, and you must be able to handle the sight of another person "ravaging" your partner (as we witnessed here)
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longarm101 replied to Noldus's topic in B#4 Eleonora, Kaya, Azura, Aveline, Amirel (11/11/15)
Las Vegas is a great place to visit , but living here sucks trust me , Cancun is a great party town but spring break has about killed it , Los Angeles well that one speaks for itself. Vancouver was great , and Amsterdam was epic. -
In all fairness I think Rebecca came back with every intention of rocking this apartment like a rock star, but damn near as soon as she hit the door she was hit with the vid posting thing, and of course her bf started in on her almost instantly. So I will wait and see what happens, from what i am reading sounds like she might be ready to tell him to piss up a rope
