Haha you guys gotta give this poor kid a break, Nik is just a young kid, girls are always way ahead of guys at their age, Most young guys have the opposite problem than he does though, like Smith, 15 strokes and boom, Thta's it. i havnt really seen what goes on between them, but she needs to get him working on her, show him what she likes, and just seeing her squirm will make him relax, and then he'll be the usual guy, shooting his load in 15 strokes, that would be better than whats going on now.