I don't really blame Paul for her not having an orgasm during sex, it happens with lots of women. She needs to tell him what she wants him to do if there,s a way she could come during sex, take his hand and put it down there and show him what to do. And if she rolls off and finishes herself, no problem, lay down next to her , hold her and kiss her, brush your fingers lightly over her breasts, and when she's done, don't get up and walk away, lay there for a time and savor the moment together. she'll love him for that. Oh and turn the damn TV off ! put some soft sexy music on onstead