Bonjour Anode,
If Leora were my wife? Honestly, I don’t think many people would be as relaxed as Paul appears to be. That level of acceptance takes either a very specific mindset, very clear boundaries, or a lot of emotional compartmentalising. Most partners would struggle with jealousy, insecurity, or at least want more say in what’s going on.
That said, you’re right to give Paul his dues. From the outside, he doesn’t seem controlling or intrusive, and he mostly lets Leora run her own sexual and professional world. Whether that’s strength, detachment, or simply an agreement we don’t fully see… hard to know. But it is restraint, and not everyone could pull that off without blowing things up.