I would say this. A woman can experience orgasm from inside, but it is much easier to experience it from the labia. That is why I prefer cunnilingus to get my lady off. It is easy to do if done right and you can make it happen multiple times with just a little effort.
If we are to believe this is a real orgasm, she needs to use this method. Yet, I agree, it would be nice to see the big dildos from days of old again. Perhaps Paul will bring them with him.