Maybe they are just very new to swinging. This is my BIG problem with it. Everyone always just looks so worried about everything happening around them that they forget to lose themselves in the sex. It's like, "OMG, there's another dick nearby I better be aware of what it's doing at all times. But don't look, no don't look". Sorry, about 95% of the time the swining sex just looks unpleasureable. Mira and Henry are the best at pulling it off, hands down!