letsdothis Posted September 12, 2018 Share Posted September 12, 2018 5 hours ago, alt0na_O7 said: I've written this before. I just criticize the people I respect and love. 🙂 When I got to this line, I think I understand what you're saying. It's also called constructive criticism, meaning you try to improve something or someone by giving criticism in a helpful, supportive way because you care about what happens to them. On the other side of that coin, just because it's helpful criticism doesn't mean you should always offer it. If the recipient of that criticism doesn't appreciate it, maybe you shouldn't give it. It's up to you, but if people don't like it, well...you decide. 😊 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alt0na_O7 Posted September 13, 2018 Author Share Posted September 13, 2018 10 hours ago, letsdothis said: When I got to this line, I think I understand what you're saying. It's also called constructive criticism, meaning you try to improve something or someone by giving criticism in a helpful, supportive way because you care about what happens to them. On the other side of that coin, just because it's helpful criticism doesn't mean you should always offer it. If the recipient of that criticism doesn't appreciate it, maybe you shouldn't give it. It's up to you, but if people don't like it, well...you decide. 😊 I always made constructive criticism as much as possible. but I received a reaction from that girl as hard as I had no ever expected. Please look at pages 33 and 34 to remember. What did I say? That girl is doing a lot of makeup. Is it a lie? What did I say? She's masturbating more than a normal person. Do you really enjoy that girl? It does not interest me. Be careful! I did not tell that girl you're a nymphomaniac. If she was not doing this with commercial anxiety, it was a sign of illness. I think this was a constructive criticizm in sufficient You read that girl's reaction to me. Okay, I know that there are not many people who love and support me here. Maybe I'm rowing unnecessary. If they claim to learn life besides earning money, they must not forget that criticism is an important lesson in life school. 🙂 Please note the number of pageviews between Part 1-2-3. I guess I'm not the only reason this is happening. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
letsdothis Posted September 13, 2018 Share Posted September 13, 2018 15 minutes ago, alt0na_O7 said: I always made constructive criticism as much as possible. but I received a reaction from that girl as hard as I had no ever expected. Please look at pages 33 and 34 to remember. What did I say? That girl is doing a lot of makeup. Is it a lie? What did I say? She's masturbating more than a normal person. Do you really enjoy that girl? It does not interest me. Be careful! I did not tell that girl you're a nymphomaniac. If she was not doing this with commercial anxiety, it was a sign of illness. I think this was a constructive criticizm in sufficient You read that girl's reaction to me. Okay, I know that there are not many people who love and support me here. Maybe I'm rowing unnecessary. If they claim to learn life besides earning money, they must not forget that criticism is an important lesson in life school. 🙂 Please note the number of pageviews between Part 1-2-3. I guess this is the only reason why it's not like that. I don't dislike you, at all, Alt0na, and I'm not unsupportive of you, either. But, based on the criticisms you mentioned, I can very easily understand why someone, especially a woman, wouldn't want to hear them. Remember, I said just because you can, doesn't mean you should. You tested the water with what you said and it wasn't very well received, and understandably so. Maybe there's a lesson there. There's a chance to learn from everything we do and say. You may want to help someone with what you say, but in fact, the lesson may end up being for you, instead. Or, it may be for both parties. You never know. Those numbers associated with Parts 1, 2 and 3 are not page views. That's the number of posts in each topic and they're quite different from page views. It's very likely that many, many more people viewed those topics, but never posted anything. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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alt0na_O7 Posted September 13, 2018 Author Share Posted September 13, 2018 42 minutes ago, letsdothis said: I don't dislike you, at all, Alt0na, and I'm not unsupportive of you, either. But, based on the criticisms you mentioned, I can very easily understand why someone, especially a woman, wouldn't want to hear them. Remember, I said just because you can, doesn't mean you should. You tested the water with what you said and it wasn't very well received, and understandably so. Maybe there's a lesson there. There's a chance to learn from everything we do and say. You may want to help someone with what you say, but in fact, the lesson may end up being for you, instead. Or, it may be for both parties. You never know. Those numbers associated with Parts 1, 2 and 3 are not page views. That's the number of posts in each topic and they're quite different from page views. It's very likely that many, many more people viewed those topics, but never posted anything. maybe you are right. you look like a wise man 🙂 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
letsdothis Posted September 13, 2018 Share Posted September 13, 2018 50 minutes ago, alt0na_O7 said: maybe you are right. you look like a wise man 🙂 Thank you, Alt0na. I just try to be helpful. 😊 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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