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11 minutes ago, Brokk! said:

But there is always a doubt, if she needs him how is it that she doesn't go to him?

Exactly! This is is why it's so weird and dysfunctional. It HAS to be on her terms. But she can't let go.

Perfect example, from the other Tuesday, when she was crying and shouting in the toilet late on, the night before the skype marathon with her mate back home. She made FIVE calls that night, 3 in the toilet. She kept him awake until after 1am. Now, if she was this pissed off with her 'Man' of a year and a half, what any normal person would do, is to make one call, tell them how they felt and hang up. Then let them squirm their way back over the next few days.

What you DON'T do, is keep phoning them over and over, to make sure they hear every tear, every insult. Because that is saying 'YOU are to blame - But i DON'T want this to end. So please make this right'

Yet, her 'Right' is seeing him only part time, despite treating the whole thing as if it was FULL time. Why? Because as Jimbo said.....She needs him more than he needs her. 

And therefore, Perfect. THAT'S why she can't let him go. And the only way i ever see this ending is either Paul arriving, or LB himself ends it.

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7 minutes ago, Slipper Guyquad said:

Exactly! This is is why it's so weird and dysfunctional. It HAS to be on her terms. But she can't let go.

Perfect example, from the other Tuesday, when she was crying and shouting in the toilet late on, the night before the skype marathon with her mate back home. She made FIVE calls that night, 3 in the toilet. She kept him awake until after 1am. Now, if she was this pissed off with her 'Man' of a year and a half, what any normal person would do, is to make one call, tell them how they felt and hang up. Then let them squirm their way back over the next few days.

What you DON'T do, is keep phoning them over and over, to make sure they hear every tear, every insult. Because that is saying 'YOU are to blame - But i DON'T want this to end. So please make this right'

Yet, her 'Right' is seeing him only part time, despite treating the whole thing as if it was FULL time. Why? Because as Jimbo said.....She needs him more than he needs her. 

Three words, that i have written time and time again. Weak, Gullible, Besotted. And therefore, Perfect. THAT'S why she can't let him go.

Paul is always present 

On the phone and Skype 

long conversations 

happy and joyful 

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21 minutes ago, Slipper Guyquad said:

Exactly! This is is why it's so weird and dysfunctional. It HAS to be on her terms. But she can't let go.

Perfect example, from the other Tuesday, when she was crying and shouting in the toilet late on, the night before the skype marathon with her mate back home. She made FIVE calls that night, 3 in the toilet. She kept him awake until after 1am. Now, if she was this pissed off with her 'Man' of a year and a half, what any normal person would do, is to make one call, tell them how they felt and hang up. Then let them squirm their way back over the next few days.

What you DON'T do, is keep phoning them over and over, to make sure they hear every tear, every insult. Because that is saying 'YOU are to blame - But i DON'T want this to end. So please make this right'

Yet, her 'Right' is seeing him only part time, despite treating the whole thing as if it was FULL time. Why? Because as Jimbo said.....She needs him more than he needs her. 

And therefore, Perfect. THAT'S why she can't let him go. And the only way i ever see this ending is either Paul arriving, or LB himself ends it.

Like I said earlier good your back on we will start back with our exchange of teasing remarks soon ignore the other laugh remarks

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20 minutes ago, jimbo4 said:

Possibly because he chooses where and when, women are attracted to men who show little interest, they see it as a challenge.

However, these things are fine if you are a teenager and at the beginning of a relationship. But we are now a year on and this goes on and usually by now you should already understand if a relationship is working or not.

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15 minutes ago, Ste said:

Like I said earlier good your back on we will start back with our exchange of teasing remarks soon ignore the other laugh remarks

Trouble is Ste, i have been given laugh or confused reactions by someone who actually knows and agrees with what i write, as they've told me this in PM. That's the annoying aspect. Doing one thing privately, and another publicly.

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21 minutes ago, Slipper Guyquad said:

Exactly! This is is why it's so weird and dysfunctional. It HAS to be on her terms. But she can't let go.

Perfect example, from the other Tuesday, when she was crying and shouting in the toilet late on, the night before the skype marathon with her mate back home. She made FIVE calls that night, 3 in the toilet. She kept him awake until after 1am. Now, if she was this pissed off with her 'Man' of a year and a half, what any normal person would do, is to make one call, tell them how they felt and hang up. Then let them squirm their way back over the next few days.

What you DON'T do, is keep phoning them over and over, to make sure they hear every tear, every insult. Because that is saying 'YOU are to blame - But i DON'T want this to end. So please make this right'

Yet, her 'Right' is seeing him only part time, despite treating the whole thing as if it was FULL time. Why? Because as Jimbo said.....She needs him more than he needs her. 

And therefore, Perfect. THAT'S why she can't let him go. And the only way i ever see this ending is either Paul arriving, or LB himself ends it.

I understand, but in the end WHAT is Leora looking for in him? it's been like this for a year and every time they end up arguing. She will also need him but at the same time she doesn't want him if not like ... yeah, like what? As a shoulder to cry on? there is Paul. As company when she is sick? there is Paul. When she needs help with some tech gimmick, she calls Paul. When she wants to let off steam, Paul is there. And if Paul isn't there, she calls her friends in Prague or the one she talks to on Skype. Yeah ... what is LB?

 

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