B2 - General Topic 2024 #23 (December)

[Brit Guy]

Eris giving her beef curtains a nice airing and teasing us fanboys. 

[maxfactor]

1 minute ago, luvdoggy1111 said:

There are certain rules here. I don't believe they can for example cover the cams. I think that is a big no.

 

[Epikouros]

il y a 5 minutes, Brit Guy a dit :

I agree with some of what you have said but this is reallifecam, and it's sometimes more real than we think in respect of a tenant NOT wanting to be seen naked on cam. There is nothing wrong with her not wanting to be seen naked as it is completely normal BUT she isn't helping herself by signing up (if she has) to a website that encourages exhibitionism. She's not doing anything wrong, she's not committing any offence but just perhaps made a bad choice entering a world where exhibitionism is encouraged. People on here can ridicule her or feel disappointed all they want but it's not going to change a thing if she is stuck firm to her decision so for that then people here should just leave her be and not watch her...simple, out of sight, out of mind. No point in crying about someone who doesn't satisfy your needs. 

People continue watching because, one day, she'll make a mistake & slip up... 😉 (or not... 😕)

Or they keep watching because they want to be there the moment she just gets tired of her charade (which must cost her a lot of mental energy, always making sure she's covered before all cams... I'd be like "to hell with it" after 5 min, even as a guest - it's just a body, after all) and finally stops fretting and lets it all hang out. 😄  

But after almost two weeks, the idea of staying 'pure' (aka 'prude') might indeed be stuck into her head until she leaves... The longer it takes, the more difficult it gets.

If she stays long, with no signs of loosening up, even the most ardent voyeurs might lose interest in her eventually.

I wouldn't consider the exagerrated & mentally exhausting prudeness that Jessi displays 'normal', however. You think all the tenants & guests on RLC who were naked on cam are exhibitionists? Some probably are/were, but most likely they just didn't care that much, or not anymore after a while, getting used to it and realising it's not such a big deal after all. Having sex or bating on cam was often a much bigger hurdle for them (especially guests), and that's where nudity starts to actually feel 'exhibitionist'.

Just like the people who frequent nude/topless beaches or mixed public spas aren't actual exhibitionists for the most part (meaning it doesn't excite them to be naked where others can see them - the definition of exhibitionism -, but they're also not afraid of it; they just don't care, because it just feels more comfortable naked).

That being said, Anglo-Saxon (English speaking) culture tends to still be more conservative in this regard (USA even more than the UK) than the rest of the Western world (Western & Middle Europe), though exceptions exist, of course. Maybe that's why you considered Jessi's somewhat neurotic and continuous attempts to hide & cover "normal". I don't. Not unless she were a young teen, which she obviously isn't anymore. Maybe something happened that caused her to have these hang-ups?... 

[Epikouros]

Did anyone see the situation before the night vision in Pam & Jessi's bedroom was turned off?

In other words: does anyone have a guess as to why it was turned off? Something to do with Jessi not wanting to be seen naked on cam?

[Brit Guy]

5 minutes ago, Epikouros said:

People continue watching because, one day, she'll make a mistake & slip up... 😉 (or not... 😕)

Or they keep watching because they want to be there the moment she just gets tired of her charade (which must cost her a lot of mental energy, always making sure she's covered before all cams... I'd be like "to hell with it" after 5 min, even as a guest - it's just a body, after all) and finally stops fretting and lets it all hang out. 😄  

But after almost two weeks, the idea of staying 'pure' (aka 'prude') might indeed be stuck into her head until she leaves... The longer it takes, the more difficult it gets.

If she stays long, with no signs of loosening up, even the most ardent voyeurs might lose interest in her eventually.

I wouldn't consider the exagerrated & mentally exhausting prudeness that Jessi displays 'normal', however. You think all the tenants & guests on RLC who were naked on cam are exhibitionists? Some probably are/were, but most likely they just didn't care that much, or not anymore after a while, getting used to it and realising it's not such a big deal after all. Having sex or bating on cam was often a much bigger hurdle for them (especially guests), and that's where nudity starts to actually feel 'exhibitionist'.

Just like the people who frequent nude/topless beaches or mixed public spas aren't actual exhibitionists for the most part (meaning it doesn't excite them to be naked where others can see them - the definition of exhibitionism -, but they're also not afraid of it; they just don't care, because it just feels more comfortable naked).

That being said, Anglo-Saxon (English speaking) culture tends to still be more conservative in this regard (USA even more than the UK) than the rest of the Western world (Western & Middle Europe), though exceptions exist, of course. Maybe that's why you considered Jessi's somewhat neurotic and continuous attempts to hide & cover "normal". I don't. Not unless she were a young teen, which she obviously isn't anymore. Maybe something happened that caused her to have these hang-ups?... 

RLC being the type of website is it would definitely encourage 'exhibitionism', but it is ultimately down to the tenant, and being as she is tagging along with Pam then she is likely to be sought after and watched whether she undresses or not...as you said people will watch and wait but for some these things take time. Some here expect the girls to drop their luggage and start shagging or bating...really pathetic.  Take the cams out of the equation and she would happily walk around and do whatever naked but so far it is evident she has a problem with the cameras and there is nothing nobody but her can do about it. If she goes then it is likely Pam will go, and I am sure Pam has tried to encourage her to strip and whatever but if even she says no to her friend then she will not listen to RLC or people on here crying about her given that there are a whole load of other woman on the site who happily get naked and do whatever. I don't get why people here get so uptight about someone making the choice they have if they don't want to undress. Just switch cams to a different apartment or girl. 

[Epikouros]

il y a 13 minutes, Brit Guy a dit :

RLC being the type of website is it would definitely encourage 'exhibitionism', but it is ultimately down to the tenant, and being as she is tagging along with Pam then she is likely to be sought after and watched whether she undresses or not...as you said people will watch and wait but for some these things take time. Some here expect the girls to drop their luggage and start shagging or bating...really pathetic.  Take the cams out of the equation and she would happily walk around and do whatever naked but so far it is evident she has a problem with the cameras and there is nothing nobody but her can do about it. If she goes then it is likely Pam will go, and I am sure Pam has tried to encourage her to strip and whatever but if even she says no to her friend then she will not listen to RLC or people on here crying about her given that there are a whole load of other woman on the site who happily get naked and do whatever. I don't get why people here get so uptight about someone making the choice they have if they don't want to undress. Just switch cams to a different apartment or girl. 

That's the other problem: there's often not that much going on... Or the same old (by which I mean long residing) tenants doing the same old things you've seen them do before countless times.

It's always exciting when a new girl (or even a guest girl) turns up, because some viewers (like me) like variety.

Then when she turns out to not be an ideal fit for the project, a tenant continuing to hide & cover after almost two weeks, it's a bit of a letdown, even though she otherwise seems like a nice & fun & rather attractive girl. And in that moment, the other girls that do the things you've seen them do dozens of times (or nothing at all, as they all need to eat & sleep & go out & check their phones & watch films/series on their laptops, all of which is of course understandable, except maybe the phones 😉) are no consolation.  

[Brit Guy]

4 minutes ago, Epikouros said:

That's the other problem: there's often not that much going on... Or the same old (by which I mean long residing) tenants doing the same old things you've seen them do before countless times.

It's always exciting when a new girl (or even a guest girl) turns up, because some viewers (like me) like variety.

Then when she turns out to not be an ideal fit for the project, continuing to hide & cover after almost two weeks, it's a bit of a letdown, even though she otherwise seems like a nice & fun & rather attractive girl. And in that moment, the other girls that do the things you've seen them do dozens of times (or nothing at all, as they all need to eat & sleep & go out, which is of course understandable) are no consolation. 

I totally agree with all you have said, and I usually give a newbie two weeks before I decide to either continue watching or no longer watch and to switch cams and watch someone worth watching. So, if she hasn't done anything worth watching by Thursday then I will no longer chime in to see what she is up to. I only chime in to watch Karma when she is asleep despite doing more than what we all expect but what she does is just fucked up although it is her choice of course but she has the most awful personal hygiene and that is a colossal red flag. She is a disgusting participant plain and simple so yea for me she is best viewed when she is asleep. 

[Epikouros]

il y a 7 minutes, Brit Guy a dit :

I totally agree with all you have said, and I usually give a newbie two weeks before I decide to either continue watching or no longer watch and to switch cams and watch someone worth watching. So, if she hasn't done anything worth watching by Thursday then I will no longer chime in to see what she is up to. I only chime in to watch Karma when she is asleep despite doing more than what we all expect but what she does is just fucked up although it is her choice of course but she has the most awful personal hygiene and that is a colossal red flag. She is a disgusting participant plain and simple so yea for me she is best viewed when she is asleep. 

Talking about watching girls while asleep: even that isn't possible with Jessi now, as apparently someone (Pam, according to someone posting above?) turned off the night vision cam... Did Jessi want to sleep naked/topless, and therefore the night vision had to be switched off?...

Covering cams or turning off the night vision is not allowed, if memory serves me well. 

[Elcondor]

43 minutes ago, Epikouros said:

People continue watching because, one day, she'll make a mistake & slip up... 😉 (or not... 😕)

Or they keep watching because they want to be there the moment she just gets tired of her charade (which must cost her a lot of mental energy, always making sure she's covered before all cams... I'd be like "to hell with it" after 5 min, even as a guest - it's just a body, after all) and finally stops fretting and lets it all hang out. 😄  

But after almost two weeks, the idea of staying 'pure' (aka 'prude') might indeed be stuck into her head until she leaves... The longer it takes, the more difficult it gets.

If she stays long, with no signs of loosening up, even the most ardent voyeurs might lose interest in her eventually.

I wouldn't consider the exagerrated & mentally exhausting prudeness that Jessi displays 'normal', however. You think all the tenants & guests on RLC who were naked on cam are exhibitionists? Some probably are/were, but most likely they just didn't care that much, or not anymore after a while, getting used to it and realising it's not such a big deal after all. Having sex or bating on cam was often a much bigger hurdle for them (especially guests), and that's where nudity starts to actually feel 'exhibitionist'.

Just like the people who frequent nude/topless beaches or mixed public spas aren't actual exhibitionists for the most part (meaning it doesn't excite them to be naked where others can see them - the definition of exhibitionism -, but they're also not afraid of it; they just don't care, because it just feels more comfortable naked).

That being said, Anglo-Saxon (English speaking) culture tends to still be more conservative in this regard (USA even more than the UK) than the rest of the Western world (Western & Middle Europe), though exceptions exist, of course. Maybe that's why you considered Jessi's somewhat neurotic and continuous attempts to hide & cover "normal". I don't. Not unless she were a young teen, which she obviously isn't anymore. Maybe something happened that caused her to have these hang-ups?... 

Personally, I don't really follow her or Pam. I did follow her the first week and as soon as realized she was hiding to get dressed or change, I just stopped wasting my time. There are a lot of other tenants to watch and besides, I really don't have time to follow her with the hope that she will show something. Whenever she decides to show something, the replay will let me know or this forum.

[trippingalot]

15 minutes ago, Epikouros said:

Talking about watching girls while asleep: even that isn't possible with Jessi now, as apparently someone (Pam, according to someone posting above?) turned off the night vision cam... Did Jessi want to sleep naked/topless, and therefore the night vision had to be switched off?...

Covering cams or turning off the night vision is not allowed, if memory serves me well. 

Jess is not home

[Sean_G]

Pam should join jessi when they leave. She brought her friend to fustrate me so seh is just as guilty. If she did turn NV off RLC should intervene.

[Epikouros]

il y a 1 minute, Elcondor a dit :

Personally, I don't really follow her or Pam. I did follow her the first week and as soon as realized she was hiding to get dressed or change, I just stopped wasting my time. There are a lot of other tenants to watch and besides, I really don't have time to follow her with the hope that she will show something. Whenever she decides to show something, the replay will let me know or this forum.

Well, that's the thing: I don't have premium, so no replay. And not wanting to shell out more than I already do...

If she finally shows something, the forum would let me know indeed.

But that could mean two things:

1) She finally dropped her exhausting charade and decided not to care about being naked on cam anymore. In that case all is fine, and I could actually wait until I read on the Forum that she changed her behaviour.

2) She showed some nudity by accident, and (in case she's aware of her mistake) becomes even more prude & wary after that. In that case, I'd have to catch the "accident" live, as there'd probably be no second chance, on the contrary even. Still not willing to pay premium for replay though, I already pay enough, lol. Even though I miss out on a lot this way, "catching" a cute guest girl or a shy new tenant changing/showering always feels like a bit of a "win". 😉 A bit of a game, if you will.