Thank you. I agree.
Thing is we're basing our thoughts on what we see going on. Most likely it's pretty close, but it could be wrong. For example say you don't care for XYZ girl by what you see on cam. Now if you was to meet XYZ girl in person and get to know her it could change what you think about her. You may end wondering how you could be so wrong or you may end up thinking damn I was right about her.
I didn't use any names because I didn't wish to insinuate anything about any of the ladies.