Nope I don't blame anybody for having a gun my opinion is just guns do not help solve problems they make it worse. In very rare cases they should be used as ultima ratio. And a gun only helps you when you are trained to use it right.
Maybe off topic but I dont think the stand your ground law is right. It was made by people who put the right to bear arms over everything other. I am very glad we dont have such a law here in Germany.
As you know I am against all kind of violence. More often women suffer from it. But when its against men its totally bad and wrong also. I do not distinguish gender here. I guess that incident you are talking about was in RLC forums?