as i said yesterday the slapping, choking, hair pulling, smothering completely ruined their sex for me. the way he was pulling her neck at 1 point could have resulted in permanent injury or death. dana needs help to learn how to deal with the abuse that has led her to feel worthless enough to allow someone to treat her like shit. there may be a place for this type of behavier but it's called a fetish site. then people could choose to see it if that's what they want. agree or disagree, fine. this has changed the way that i view these sites & this forum & not for the better. no one should be treated that way. if rex cares at all about dana he should be helping her to get counciling, not contributing to her sense of worthlessness & no self esteem.