It sure seemed that the beautiful one received a good bit of enjoyment the only times she has chosen to go for it and use it. Also, a good toy can get across that internal spot of stimulation that women have with full coverage that more times than not just fingers will not do and more times than not, gives them much more intensive stimulation towards an "O " for them. I believe she is just reluctant to use it with the cams but do not see why, when it is just about as natural as anything else when it comes to feeling a need and desire for sensitive stimulation and satisfaction..