Never ask. Just show respect. then bury the perpetrator. But to scutus's point, where are all the pundits? They are gone, and it is not because mods arrived, it is because we all worked together. 😉
Sometimes things are not as they seem. I don't pass judgment on the participants here. They are not just playthings for us. You throw Leora under the bus and know nothing of her situation, yet you fight for Eva knowing even less of her situation. You assume much. If you have better information than I please bring it to the fore.
Seriously, Mr. Cat. I agree 100%. Leora is like Howard Stern in my country. People were more interested in what he might do next than what he did each day. That makes many days anticlimactic. But one day blows your socks off and you just say WTF did I just see?