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3 minutes ago, fugwash said:

I feel like the problem with all these beautiful girls on RLC is that there just aren't enough good guys for them. There's too many doggos...

i don't think that's the problem, i actually don't think they are looking for good guys, rather they are looking for the bad guys because the bad guys fall under the saying "blonds have more fun".  these girls think that tatted up guys/bad guys are the blonds of the guys.

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(Sorry about my english, not a native speaker)

We men are kinda dumb from a woman perspective (and you girls are often complicated from our perspective). Most of the time, every problem is easy for us. We are problem solvers (my motto is : "If there's a problem, there's a solution. If there's no solution, there's no problem.") and that's the culprit of why we (men) and you (women) have some much trouble communicating. Again, you were right on the spot when speaking of your expectations not being matched by what he does. 

I had a (female) friend who was with this dude. He was trying SO hard to do the right thing, but that was so foreign to him what she was expecting that he struggled really hard. Hell, my first mariage was about the same now that I think about it. My ex-wife needed some things and I could not provide it because I did not even connect to those needs. When she explained some of them I was at loss because that made no sense to me (like the worst being "you went to the groceries on the way back from work and did not ask if I needed something ! That shows you don't think about me". The two concepts (groceries and the relationship) are so foreign for me that I can't understand why she would make that kind of link).

Expectations... that's the source of it I guess. Because society makes us have so high ones (like you said that was easier before when you meet, maried and had children). You know, when we hear "a relationship is about compromise" ? I believe it's not about the compromise the other have to do, it's about the one you're ready to make. But when I was about your age, my expectations were different, and those of my then girlfriends were close to yours (and your expectations are perfectly acceptable).

Today, my expectations are lower, because I had so many experiences that ended that I know what is really important (respect, honesty, fun, awesome sex). And thanks to that, I do appreciate more my life today than I ever had. I would not do anything that would jeopardize that. I know I could find someone else, but I don't want to.

And regarding your other question : what do I get from it ? It's a window on another world (or other minds here). Same thing that travelling or appreciating art. Sometime there's drama, sometime there's fun. Sometime watching ppl do boring stuff reminds me how great my life is and avoid to drown in everyday's life.

Also, you can watch porn and not cheat. That's just about the boundaries you set with your partner.

The same you're wondering about us, I'm wondering about why you joined the project ? 

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2 minutes ago, HotWivesRock said:

Octavia has been hot all day, lunchtime she tried on new sexy underwear, tried her new butt plug and bated.

The daytime fun started here after a shower.

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She has been talking on and off from about 7pm starting here, there have been breaks but its pretty much all of the evening until Tonya got home, after a chat to Tonya she came to us.

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Just to add Octavia I think your beautiful and amazingly funny.   I especially like your naughty side. Go Girl

i have a lot of catching up to do tomorrow concerning octavia.  thanks for the input and the links!

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1 minute ago, HotWivesRock said:

Frank, cancel your weekend :biggrin:  

i can devote tomorrow for catching up but i'm booked for sunday.  with my luck i will wake up tomorrow and my sub will have run out lol.  oh well, such is life!

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3 minutes ago, itohkata said:

(Sorry about my english, not a native speaker)

We men are kinda dumb from a woman perspective (and you girls are often complicated from our perspective). Most of the time, every problem is easy for us. We are problem solvers (my motto is : "If there's a problem, there's a solution. If there's no solution, there's no problem.") and that's the culprit of why we (men) and you (women) have some much trouble communicating. Again, you were right on the spot when speaking of your expectations not being matched by what he does.

Men are from mars and women are from venus fits well with what you are saying.

I had a (female) friend who was with this dude. He was trying SO hard to do the right thing, but that was so foreign to him what she was expecting that he struggled really hard. Hell, my first mariage was about the same now that I think about it. My ex-wife needed some things and I could not provide it because I did not even connect to those needs. When she explained some of them I was at loss because that made no sense to me (like the worst being "you went to the groceries on the way back from work and did not ask if I needed something ! That shows you don't think about me". The two concepts (groceries and the relationship) are so foreign for me that I can't understand why she would make that kind of link).

that should be a lesson to all men!  it's the simple things that put money in her emotional bank!

Expectations... that's the source of it I guess. Because society makes us have so high ones (like you said that was easier before when you meet, maried and had children). You know, when we hear "a relationship is about compromise" ? I believe it's not about the compromise the other have to do, it's about the one you're ready to make. But when I was about your age, my expectations were different, and those of my then girlfriends were close to yours (and your expectations are perfectly acceptable).

Today, my expectations are lower, because I had so many experiences that ended that I know what is really important (respect, honesty, fun, awesome sex). And thanks to that, I do appreciate more my life today than I ever had. I would not do anything that would jeopardize that. I know I could find someone else, but I don't want to.

And regarding your other question : what do I get from it ? It's a window on another world (or other minds here). Same thing that travelling or appreciating art. Sometime there's drama, sometime there's fun. Sometime watching ppl do boring stuff reminds me how great my life is and avoid to drown in everyday's life.

Also, you can watch porn and not cheat. That's just about the boundaries you set with your partner.

The same you're wondering about us, I'm wondering about why you joined the project ? 

good thoughts dude!

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Just now, Captain Kangaroo said:

The best relationships dont come from asking and taking from them. They come and are made from the things that each party is willing to openly give and put into it

truth !

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4 minutes ago, fugwash said:

I know, my sub is coming due in a couple days but I want to stick around for Octavia.

And Karma too, lol...

But Octavia!

do what your heart tells you to do fugwash, mine is telling me it's time to give rlc up.  i know it's not going to be easy, but it's something i feel i should do.

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